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Afghan Sisters...Thinking positive today...
November 17, 2006
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I am going to start this thread with the last post to the other thread. Let's try to have a positive day today...

cyndra820
17-Nov-06

Good moring everyone!!

GG~ No one is ever going to put you up for adoption!!! Not ever. When have you been a shit or a pain in the ass?

Okay, I'm instituting rule number three. It will take us all quite a while to master, especially me!!!

RULE #3: Negative comments about ourselves that aren't factual are permitted.

I told you it was going to be hard. It's nearly as hard as Rule# 1.

All too often we say something bad about ourselves to each other. GG thinks she's been a shit. I haven't see that. Mich thinks we are going to leave her behind and she's not a great mom. I have never agreed with that. I've always felt Mich was an awsome mommy dealing with everthing that comes her way. GG hasn't said much that was too too negative, but I want her to say positive things. LL gets on herself too, but not nearly as much as the rest of us.

SO, starting today I'd like us to try something. How about each time any of us say something negative about ourselves that isn't factual we tell them it's not true and feed them something positve. How do you all feel about that?

Me First!!!!! Brat privelege, ya know!! 😉

LL~ Has wisdom, kindness and great humor.

GG~ Has insight and a depth for giving that is incredible.

Mich~ Great mother and wonderful friend who is warm and caring.

Need~ Balanced and giving. Has a steadiness I hope to one day achieve.

Friendma~ Gosh, I've just seen some very insightful comments from you. Don't know you that well, but that's what I'd have to say.

Rasputin~ Raspberry!! I don't know you that well, but if Need says you are warm and wonderful, then I have to agree.

ArmyAngel~ You are such a gentle and caring soul. I think you are wonderful in the way you give of yourself in the midst of all you are going through.

I love you all. I hope you like the idea. We don't have to do everyone in a posting, but I think it would be helpful that when we see someone is making a negative comment about themselves we call them on it. Maybe we can stem the tide of negativity!!!

Cyndra

Girls, I am still not feeling well at all so I am not sure how much I will or will not be around...but I will try to check in. Still running the fevre, and a HORRIBLE night of sleep. But I love you all from the bottom of my heart....

November 17, 2006
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Cyndra~ Forgiving and compassionate...

LL~ Caring and honest...

Friendma~ Open and friendly...

Need~ Helpful and considerate...

Ras~ Strong and courageous...

Kroika~ Sweet and friendly...

Army~ Amazing and wonderful

GG~ Lovable, giving, honest, and growing....

I love you all, VERY MUCH....

Mich

November 17, 2006
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Love you LL....Sleep well sis...

November 17, 2006
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okay, only positives,I will try...I dedicate this to my sisters, my friends:

MY SISTER, MY FRIEND

A one syllable word that rhymes with end

but its definition should contain the word begin

If there is someone with whom you can call your friend

then you know for whom you can send

hugs and thanks for what they have done

to assure you of that place you run

to be consoled or even to congratulate

no need for permission or to unlock a gate

to reach for strength in time of need

for open arms await and words that lead

you to understanding, comfort, and peace

so hurting tears that run will soon cease

another day has come and gone

A true friend and sister has only begun.

With all my love,....gg (Donna)

November 17, 2006
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I love it.....You are the sweetest thing...and I LOVE YOUR NAME sweet sister gg. You are the BEST. The poem was beautiful...See gg, you are getting stronger EVERY day...I LOVE YOU

November 17, 2006
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I love you so much mich...I missed you so much last night...I hope you get better today...Easy day at school...tonight....had bad anxiety last night from midnight til 3 a.m. and really limited to any drugs now due to surgery and headaches...want to sleep so badly...Having a great day at school...love my job...love my students...love kids in general...This is their last day before Thanksgiving break...so I am doing makeups and all the students who are caught up with all their work are working on murals and they are having a ball! Gotta go grade papers...Love you...

November 17, 2006
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I need a sister who has some time to copy and paste and organize which well greatly reduce some of my anxiety...I am greatly embarrassed asking, but I really need you and actually feel that you care enough that maybe you can help me with this.
I have tried sending this 6 times,let's see if I can do it again...goofy grape here...

November 17, 2006
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GG~ What a lovely name and poem!!! I am going to copy the poem and print it out and have it framed. It is so beautiful, just like my sister!!!

Mich~ How are you feeling? I hope the fever is gone. I worry about you, you know!!!

LL~ I am hoping you have sweet dreams. I can't wait to hear what you think of the idea about the positive remarks.

Need~ How's Matt today? Is he still peeved about not being able to have his GameBoy? I am so pissed at Slugshit!!! Can I have at him just one time? How much does he love his car?

Okay, I'm going to go back to work. We're having a pre-Thanksgiving luncheon. I made a cake and I'm getting hungry!!!

Love,
Cyndra

November 17, 2006
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yea, writing that poem at two in the a.m. helped calm me down last night...thinking of my sisters here...

cyn, your post was wonderful this a.m.; it was nice what you wrote about everyone, yet I was surprised at mine...insight and depth??? guess, I don't get it or see it...
Thanks for being upbeat and I love when you have an attitude because it makes me laugh...I am hungry too and it is two hours til lunch...ugh...

November 17, 2006
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Hi girls---

I must have caught something from MIch because I am sooooo sick... can't even sit and type.. It hit me like a brick last night at 1am... fever, chills, and having sharp pains in between my ribs.... it feels like it is constricting my breathing....

Just got back from work . left early. and I was supposed to go back tonight 6-10 but I think I am just going to go to bed right now.

I will post later

thinking of all of you

NEED

November 17, 2006
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GG~ You have looked at the actions of people we have described and said something that helped me see the situation in a different light.

Of course you have a depth for giving!!! Look at what you do for all of us sisters? Last week we were ALL going through something and you gave just as much as everyone else. You give a lot of love and support to your sisters. You don't take, take and take. I know you feel that way and I wish you didn't.

Love,
Cyndra

November 17, 2006
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cyn, gosh, I guess I don't see what you see in me,,,but is sounds so nice and it makes me smile on the inside...love you cyn!!!

So need, feeling like a rotten peach today...gosh, did I start all the sickness stuff here...poor need...go to bed and sleep...gosh, is there anyone to bring you some soup or something? I feel bad for you....Take care...

Okay, mich...How are you feeling? Hope your babies don't get sick too...geez...that would not be fun...

LL, Please stay well up there...and get some sleep....still praying for the right guy for my LL!!!

Back to work....

November 17, 2006
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Hey folks,

Thanks for all the compliments and kind words I've heard from all of you. I think we all struggle with something. I was depressed and gripped with fear and anxiety 2 days ago and could not sleep weell on those 2 nites. Thank God, depression ceased.

Even tho I'm PMS, yet I'm glad and cheerful.

I think we have so many things in common and we can be vulnerable with each other here about our life. This will bring forth so much healing & happiness.

GG ~ Please don't feel so self-conscious or self-critical. I used to do that for myself. No one is perfect and we all love you just the way you are. I've interacted with you on a number of threads and had the impression that you're a kind person.

Enjoy your lunch/party!

(((Hugs to All)))

November 17, 2006
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Hey rasberry, I just feel like a whiny baby on this thread and await getting the boot...Gosh, wish we could have talked the last two nights...This late night, early a.m. insomnia is killing me..But, good news, one week vacation starts in 4 hours!!!!!!!!! Gosh, a lot of PMS going around!!! Hey ras, what state are you from?

November 17, 2006
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Love you all.....

And gg, I still love your name...

November 17, 2006
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mich, it is plain and yucky and I just don't like it...let's drop it...I just did it because of YOU! for YOU! because I love YOU! How are you feeling????

November 17, 2006
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sick...I am NOT looking forward to there being a ton of little 9 & 10 year old girls in my house tonight but, hey, whatever...We will make it...

Maybe I will just have to hide in my room....ALONE...Period, fever, sore throat, I am NOT impressed at all. My fever will go down with advil, but it keeps going way back up to like 102. I am just miserable...I need sleep...

I am sorry if I got Need sick too....

Love you all

November 17, 2006
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GG~ YOUR NAME IS NOT UGLY!!! I think it's beautiful. Thank you for trusting us enough with the real you.

(((Mich)))~ Sorry you are so sick. I say run and hide and let hubby deal with them.

(((Need)))~ I hope you feel better after a bit of a lie down. I hope it's just some weird thing going around Jersey and Michigan!!!

LL~ Still sleeping?

Ras~ I know about depression sneaking up on you. I hate when the little bugger does that!!! I'm glad you aren't in the same space you were then. Healing takes time and sometimes the road is bumpy. I try to remember that whenever I start beating myself up.

Cyn

November 17, 2006
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mich, gosh, I wish I could help you...it is hard to see a sister in need and not be able to lend a hand...I love you...rest when you can, ok?

November 17, 2006
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good afternoon girls

Love the positive flow to the thread today...keeper going til tonight...and I'll add my 2 cents --I'll be home around midnight...

today could be the day that I see cute guy (it's been since the middle of July!) I sure hope so : ) if I do just hoping I'm strong, confident and feeling good!! That is what I want to feel...confident...

Love to you all. Have a great rest of the day...I'll pop in tonight.

LL

November 17, 2006
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and oh I love the littlest sis's name... its a soft name, its a lovely name, its a warm name, its a so-not fitting name for such a stinker : ) I love it GG.

November 17, 2006
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hahahahahahahahahaha
!!!!!!!!!lil shit

Hope you see cute guy, LL!

November 17, 2006
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Okay, I had a gorgeous FBI agent come pay me a visit this afternoon!!! I love eye candy!!

November 17, 2006
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Way to go cyn!!!! You and LL might get lucky tonight!!! LOL

November 17, 2006
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I am jealous....I want someone hot to walk in to my house tonight....maybe that owuld make me feel better. And I am NOT talking about 15 9&10 year old little girls either...That is NOT going to help my health....OR my sanity....

Love to you all....

I miss you guys...I wish I felt better...I am never here when Cyn is around...Hey, maybe that isn't coincidence....I think she avoids me so I can't start fights....hahahahaha..lol

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