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Afghan Sisters.....MOVING Forward TOGETHER...
November 9, 2006
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Just thought I would check in and see how everyone is and I needed a hug.

November 9, 2006
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LL, first you don't have to tell the doctor anything personal to get your needs met...you just have to tell him how you feel; they hear it all the time, really...LL, just start talking and see what happens

I understand about opening up...do you think I have ignored you everytime you mentioned me getting another counselor? I have...can't do it...can't start over...at least right now...

LL, I am so PROUD of you today...You have really started talking about your needs and that makes me feel good...

I am getting stressed now about two things my appts. tomorrow, but more, about mich's appt. tomorrow...I hope someone is around tonight...not hope, surely someone will be here tonight...please, please, please,,,be here...

November 9, 2006
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(((((Friendma)))))

so glad I checked back in here before I went to lay down...

November 9, 2006
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Howdy, LL. How are you doin today? It's great to hear from you. GG, I will be here tonight. I hope that helps. I wrote Mich a response on the thread that you started for her. You are such a good friend, sorry, sister. Mich is blessed to have you and LL and all the other sisters. Hugs to ya'll. Could I get a hug? Thanks

November 9, 2006
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((((friendma))))),,,did making the promise help you???

I am glad you are going to be around tonight friendma...

November 9, 2006
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gotta go, be back in around an hour or so 4:30 cst

November 9, 2006
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Yes, GG making the promise did help. I am so thankful that you and Mich have included me into ya'lls promise. I'm glad to know that you will be here tonight.

November 9, 2006
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GG- we don't need to be stressed about Mich's appt tommorrow other than that I want answers- I want to know what direction Jim is going to give her. I want flipping answers - I want our sister here to get better, to be happy, for her to know that there is a road she will be set on that is going to lead her somewhere other than in circles and in tears....

Now GG- you will be in thought tommorrow and relax, you know Mich will be giving you words to take with you that will help you get through... Mich will be right there with you tommorrow.

And oh, the doc thing...don't even want to tell him anything other than just refill the darn script. I am hoping I can get around everything and that he won't even question it. But since I have been taking the stuff on & off since April- have a feeling he's going ask questions that I don't want to answer- AT ALL. Guess if that happend, it will be another growth thing for me. And why I don't want him to know anything other than what he needs to know....PRIDE. Sad huh.

Friendma are you still here?? I have a few minutes to chat...I need to catch a couple hours of sleep before I go to work tonight (work the overnights)

November 9, 2006
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Yeah, LL. I'm here. So will you be here tonight or will you be at work? I hope you are doing well.

November 9, 2006
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also 'bout the doc thing...making myself vuneralbe...I don't like that.

November 9, 2006
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Friendma I won't be here tonight or really the next 5 nights- work. Then I try to pop in to keep up or say good night before I have to leave, but hate getting into a convo knowing I can't stay.

I am doing good actually. Had my moment this morning, but always come out it seems a little stronger and wiser. How are you doing? Now your children will be with you for the whole weekend?

November 9, 2006
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((((Friendma))))- I am going to go and lay down for a bit. you take care. LL

November 9, 2006
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Yes, the kids will be here the whole weekend. I will miss you but I understand having to work. I hope things go well for you the rest of your week, take care. Hugs to you,

November 9, 2006
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Calling the national guard...be on the lookout for two sisters, one called cyn and the other one need...you can even yell, "needcyn" and that my get them both home here!!!

Okay sisters, where are you?

Mich, bet you are looking beautiful right now...already have my hair appt. made for the 28th and also having a spa pedicure the weekend before and eyebrows waxed too!!!

LL, please , please find time to talk to me b4 you go to work tonight...just don't when that will be...I have to hug you then...just have to...tonight is important, ok???

fm, thanks for saying you will be here,,,now where in hell are those other two???

November 9, 2006
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Hello Everyone,

I wanted to check in before I read the threads. I've been in training all day and have just had a chance to say HELLO!!!

Mich, I went to that thread and posted an impolite response. Okay, not all that impolite, but frigid. So, I have your back girl!!!

LL~ How are you? How's your son?

GG~ How are you? When do you go for the preop work again? I forgot to write it down!!! Don't shoot me!!!

Need~ How was the party? How are you doing today?

Army~ HI!!! Glad to see you are around here. Miss you very much. Love you. Sorry I've not put anything in the pot I started. MUST do that!!!

Love all of you very very much!!!

Cyn

November 9, 2006
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Well, look who showed up after the national guard was called, our cyn!!! Preop tomorrow in Houston medical center...not thinking about it, just thinking about mich now...helps me not to think about me...

GUESS WHAT...Just got a hotel room tomorrow night, just love hotwire.com...got a 4 star hotel in the galleria area for $53 dollars with complimentary internet!!!!Now here's the deal...this is supposed to be a night away w/the h since our anniversary falls during the crappy postop time...but, if he even turns on that t.v. to sports or CSI, the laptop, comes out and I can check in...I don't even know what all I have to do tomorrow because I can't bear to read all the paperwork they sent me til tonight, but do know many needles will be involved, so I don't even know how I will be feeling...but, I really need to spend some quality time with him since I have been so sick...okay, that will take 30 minutes!!!hahahahahaha!!!!LOL

Now where is need???

Mich, how long does it take to get beautiful up there in frigid land???

Cyn, did you read my message above to all sisters?

November 9, 2006
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GG,

I read the message and will be composing something for her in a bit.

LL, I'm here, dammit!! I had a legitimate reason for NOT checking in this morning.

Oh, and you need some confidence, eldest sister. You are a hot woman who has a CUTE guy eyeing her. Hello!!! Get back on your feet, and kick xh to the kerb!!! You are a wonderful, warm, funny and gorgeous woman. You don't need that ass around!!!

Mich, I will be thinking of you and I never did let go. Am I supposed to? I hope not, this is kinda cool!!!

More later.

November 9, 2006
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Love you cyn!!! love when you tell it like it is...

thanks cyn, just trying to get all the sisters to do it quickly just in case...

cyn, are you going to be around tonight?

November 9, 2006
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Hi GG,

I will be around tonight. Is it another night to sleep with the laptop for chattin? LOL

November 9, 2006
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cyn, I keep pushing worries in that closet and holding the door shut...but it is bulging now...just want my sisters close to me tonight if they can and want to

November 9, 2006
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(((GG))),

I ALWAYS want to be close to my sisters. Sometimes I'm not able and I regret not being there. Tonight I will be here and I WANT to be near you. Just try and get rid of me!!!

Love you
Cyndra

November 9, 2006
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just read your response on the other thread that LL told me not to go to...you are so good!!! you crack me up!!! Such the middle child!!!

Now where in the hell is NEED!!!! Past due checking in!!jk, need

November 9, 2006
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thanks cyn, I love you...

November 9, 2006
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anyone?? please

November 9, 2006
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Need!!! Where are you??? What are you doing??? Come out, come out wherever you are.

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