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Afghan sisters...LOOKING FORWARD...
November 5, 2006
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PROMISE gg....Mostly to you...but to the rest of my sisters and kousin kroika too..

November 5, 2006
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i need to tell you something that is important and i have been holding in on everyone...if you have time...

November 5, 2006
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Absolutely NOT...I lied

November 5, 2006
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ditto on the lying...what i need to tell you, i have to be careful, because it is hard to tell w/o naming

November 5, 2006
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do you have time, it can wait, in fact, i have been holding this for awhile, but have to know you can be here and respond...so it can wait...I know how tired you must be...

November 5, 2006
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yep, what is going on?

November 5, 2006
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gg? where did you go?

November 5, 2006
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LL, while waiting for gg to type...Will 9 still work for you tomorrow or is that too early for you, because that is 8 for you..Just let me know please..

November 5, 2006
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gosh, this is hard to word...I got very emotionally attached to someone's story on the site to the point that it played havoc on my mind and could keep her out of my mind, because i hurt so much for her...I am talking excessive here, mich..it was affecting my life worrying about her, because it triggered what happend to me...what I told you about babysitting night...So, I had to detach from that thread so I could function and feel very guilty about it, but it affected me so much...I would just make sure that no one was letting her thread die, so i wouldn't feel so guilty...can't hardly even think about it now...

November 5, 2006
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gg, YOU should be your first priority..OK. You did probably more than you should have. It is good to care about other people but you have to watch how it is affecting you. In all honesty, I had to do the same thing...maybe even the same person gg. We are here to help us. Great if we can help each other..but, the idea is not to make ourselves worse..still typing...

November 5, 2006
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u know what she said that i am talking about, mich?

November 5, 2006
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True as it may be that we will probably get worse before we get better, we still have to watch out for ourselves. You know what I mean...? You are ok gg. This is why I asked LL if we were more than she could handle at this point in her life. Though I KNOW that she has a lot of UNSPILLED bullshit going on in her life...I wanted to NOT do that very thing to her...MAKE SENSE...Doesn't mean that it is wrong for us to talk about it...just means that she might have not wanted to be a part of that conversation for her own happiness and safety...that is fair of any of us to say. It doesn't mean that we don't care...

November 5, 2006
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I think so honey...Honestly, I am not sure that I know, just a guess...

November 5, 2006
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okay, mich...I am worried about LL...

November 5, 2006
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h is getting irritated with me gg, I have to go...I will talk to you in the morning....I PROMISE...I am sorry that I have to run..I love you with all that I have in me...My promise to you is good...I love you and absolutely...you can lay with me and my babies...They are sweet babies too...I love you gg, with all that i have in me...

November 5, 2006
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Don't worry about LL. She said she was ok..She is just worried about us. I love you gg, I will post to you first thing in the morning ok? I am sorry that I have to go..

November 5, 2006
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well, mich, better get some school work done b4 i go to bed; have to put my plans on computer and it will take me around 45 minutes and need to take more medicine...so i want to say good night, I love you so much, and I am sorry you had a rough weekend, baby!!!!

November 5, 2006
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Love you me sweet sister...with my whole heart...

November 6, 2006
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Mich- If I get to bed shortly- 8am my time should work...wait make that 8:30 as the ex's son is here tonight and the mama is picking him up around 8am... THEN of course there is the ex factor if he will be out of here in the morning. Isn't this just unfricken real? I have to make plans around my exH and his drama. Unreal. When will enough be enough for me? And oh, as soon as he came into tonight- chaos in my home and my stress level rose in just a few secs. Soon. Soon.

OK- let's go 8:30am. And if the ex is having his normal temper tantrum I deal with it. Just thinking about dealing with him, trying to get away from him, causes me stress. This is not the way my life should be.
Alrighty then, I’ll meet you over on libs??? Or in here? Or a new thread? You pick the place. Meet you in the a.m. Talk to you then.

GG~ Hon, I hope you sleep well tonight and feel better soon. Will talk to you tomorrow. And I have done the same thing as you GG- caring about others and worrying too much as well. And sometimes it gets to the point that we have to back off for our own sanity and growth. And Mich is right, our first priority is to ourselves. We can still love and support others- but not if it becomes unhealthy for us and it's hindering our growth. And you quit your worrying about me lil sis.. and if you start worrying about me- Pray for me instead!! Pray that the cute guy at work and I eventually are able to at least talk...

Goodnight all.

(((GG))), (((Mich))), (((Need))), (((Cyndra), (((Jenni))), (((AmryAngel))), (((kousin kroika)))

November 6, 2006
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Good morning sisters--

sorry i did not get to say goodnight.. took an anxiety pill and then sleeping pill and it knocked me out to dreamland last night....

I hope that everyone has a good day.

I am a little anxious about pond scum calling.. he may call but I am not going to answer.

and if he leaves a message I don't even feel like listening to it.

It's over and we cannot be friends so what is the point of him calling me ...
two weeks ago when we did not speak he called and left a message. then two days later text me and told me : hi beautiful. I miss you....

uuuggg...

i hate this feeling.. kind of wish he would call so i dont get to answer.. and he will get the hint.
i already told him that last time we spoke that i am not going to willing to be here for when he is done with his "break" or "vacation"/// to me he wants a break or vacation and yet does not want me out of his life.. still wants to talk and to me that is an insult....

have a good day sisters

love you all

November 6, 2006
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***RULE #1: NO APOLOGIZING FOR TAKING CARE OF OURSELVES OR EXPRESSING OURSELVES!!!***

With that said...

Good Morning Sisters, how are you this morning? I see there is a meeting of the minds later this in about ten minutes. If you don't mind, I'd like to stick around and read. I promise not to stick my nose in! 🙂

(((LL)))
(((GG)))
(((Mich)))
(((Need)))
(((ArmyAngel)))
(((Kroika)))

I had to give you all hugs today.

I'm at work and I am scarfing down the coffee.

GG~ I haven't gone to the doctor yet. I haven't even made the appointment. I will make it today. I promise.

Mich~ How is your baby who doesn't want to poop? I'm sorry he's having so much trouble. I am glad that Arica is feeling better.

LL~ I don't know what to say about your baby. I'm ready to drag him into the middle of the Salt Flatts and leave him there, sans vehicle!!!

Need~ I am so glad you and GG have found each other. I guess I created the triplets! I have to hunt up another sister to bond with. Sheesh!! This is beginning to feel like a recruiting effort!! LOL

Kroika~ Where are you? How are you doing? We miss you!!!

ArmyAngel~ You know you are in my heart and I am sorry your husband is such a d**k. I'd really like to take you and your children away from him and keep you safe. I hate that he hurst you so much. He doesn't deserve the gift that you are. I mean that.

I love you all very much, holding you close now that GG and Mich are going to make me mushy.

Cyndra

November 6, 2006
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Good Morning All-

Mich- this afternoon will work better because I need to run an errand this a.m. for a dip shi*t who doesn't have their license. Don't think I'll be back around until after 10 cst. : (

Wishing all a great day. And Need, lifting you up to stay strong about not answering or listening to any messages. If you know that inevitably the relationship is over, as hard as it is, continuing to stay in contact is only hurting you - and making it that much harder to move on and let go. You know if you go through any anxiety of over the not answering and in need of support…we all are here for you. What day of NC are you on? (((Need)))

November 6, 2006
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Getting ready for work and wanted to drop a quick line...mich,this is important...last night's promise was crucial and I didn't even know it until the wee hours this morning...I don't want to talk about it, but I got very upset and felt a huge urge to punish myself, but knew I had made the promise just last night with you and also thought of you...Mich, that really was the stopping point and I thank you...I am just going through a rougher time than even I admitted...I love you mich and need you more than ever now and yes, I feel guilty typing that with all that is going on in your life...but I thought that we were all going to work on the guilt and sorries, right, LL????

Really got to go, do have clothes on, but hair still wet...I love my sisters and need my sisters...Hope all of you have a great day...Will check in when I can...Physically better, able to work at least...Mentally, not good at all...
Hold me if you can....

I love all of you so much.......GG

November 6, 2006
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GG- you feel guilty about typing what you just did to Mich?? GG sending you warm wishes, lots of love and a sisterly hug for a wonderful day ((((GG))))

Cyndra- refresh my foggy memeory here this morning (usually I'm not up with you early birds)...what's rule # 2?!

November 6, 2006
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thanks LL - I have not talked to him since Saturday ... I had a setback because I did not talk to him for a week then I caved.. then I talked to him every day last week so saturday was the last day. he told me that he does not want any type of relationship with me but still wants to talk.. I told him to not call and text me anymore.. what an insult.. thanks for the support and encouragement...

GG-- went to the coda website... finally wrote down password that I needed so I can remember..this way I dont have to keep resetting my password (living with ADD)..

Good morning Cyndra... Hope that you are feeling well..

Mich-- I hope that the kids are feeling better and you are also getting rest too...

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