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Afghan sisters...LOOKING FORWARD...
November 5, 2006
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that is another reason why I would like to go back to school and get certification for special education...

ADDers have a lot of positives as well...

we are relentless; do not give up
we are creative

It is not suprising that depression, toxic worry and anxiety abound us with undiagnosed ADD.. We never know when we are going to forget something, say the wrong thing, or show up at the wrong place at the wrong time..

November 5, 2006
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checking in and still holding mich...I will be off an on tonight...maybe going to a coda meeting...speaking of LL, have you been going to your meetings????

LL, I am really missing you...The last we talked I was so negative and I really would like to repair that,okay? I love you LL, you help me so much, you are good at helping me to stop and think...

Mich: hope babies are okay, check in when you can, okay????

Cyn: what are you up to? Didn't you go to the doctor for the fatigue? just wondering....

Need: hope you had fun with monopoly jr...

All the kids are still here watching home movies, football, and eating, and eating, and eating...It is nice and they are leaving soon and sure they will leave a big mess also...my issue...

Love you, and hope you are all okay....Love, the youngest (LOL) triplet, gg

November 5, 2006
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Mich,

How did you know PO left, I thought we were annonymous?

November 5, 2006
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GG-- still there...??

Monopoly Jr. was fun.. We did not get to finish because of dinnertime..

I hope that the rest of the sisters are ok... I am thinking of them too...

November 5, 2006
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need, i am back and forth for a couple of hours...what's up?//

Haven't heard from our other sisters much? Hope they are okay...are maybe you and I don't have much of a life! LOL

November 5, 2006
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You are so funny GG---

I am doing fine.. did not hear from

pond scum at all...

I hope that he goes away...

I am beginning to feel my anger stage

now...

I hate the fact that he used me

and played mental games with me...

Kids are playing upstairs while

I am finishing some more laundry--
never seems to end does it??

how are you feeling tonight GG?

I have been thinking of the other sisters too...

November 5, 2006
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I hate it when these needy feelings come...

I am not alone.. I have the boys right here with me but for some reason I guess the inner child in me is surfacing right now and I am trying to pause and think about something else....

I feel strong though...

November 5, 2006
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did the kids leave yet? or are they still eating and eating ??

November 5, 2006
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i could not get to a meeting just yet..

wish I could be at one right now on-line

it said that i have to wait for a confirmation at my e-mail address

i did not think that it would take this long

November 5, 2006
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wish LL was here too...

and cyndra...

and mich...

and army...

November 5, 2006
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I am going to be back in a few...

November 5, 2006
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What a beautiful closing prayer Mich for the last thread and how inspiring for the new threads title. Also girls, something we may need to include in here is maybe a few thread norms/rules. Number one on the list could be - *NO APOLOGIZING* for expressing your self, or talking about your issues/trials, for feeling like your being selfish, etc. etc. I think in life sometimes apologizes are in order but the way we apologize around here-and for what we apologize for— it’s not healthy for us : ) {It's something I myself need to work on.}

I slept all day-(then get caught up on the thread.) It’s been just awesome today at home- no one is here so the house has been soooooo quiet. This is how life should be; quiet, no stress, no arguing w/ someone, no being woke up out of a dead sleep, no being interrupted because my attention is elsewhere—gosh it sounds as if I have a very young child around here — WOW just typing that out, makes me realize how much the exH takes up so much of my time (and mind space) in a negative draining way. He truly is like having a difficult child. I want my home back, I want my life back- I want every day to feel this peaceful. Dern does that man cause me stress. Another thing I just noticed, he hasn’t done his normal zillion of times calling here. WOW- if this doesn’t show me something.

Good, good night at work though I was very tired. And I’m off til next Thursday-yea : ) When leaving work today, I almost ran off the road (2nd time I’ve almost done this now) the cute guy (not the friend of)…feel like such an idiot sometimes- guess it is a good way to get a guy’s attention – playing chicken with him on the road! I just am so darn tired in the morning and then the fact I haven’t had my nicotine fix for 8 hrs doesn’t make for a too alert driver all the while trying to adjust my eyes to the morning sun. I really wished the cute guy and I worked together on the same shifts or were at least able to run into each other than coming in or leaving work in our vehicles. Oh well, I just have to leave my love life in the hands of my higher power and know that HE is working on me right now so when the day comes-it will all fall into place, and I will be able to love and be able to receive love from a sane mind : )

Just have to get this out: While the urges are not anything I can’t fight off, and are not constant, been thinking too much again about contacting my exN. Believe it has to do with the current up rising of stress regarding exH. Nothing to do with truly missing him, or thinking I lost my one and only soul mate, but more perhaps of wanting to hold onto my past because I’m unsure about my future (???). Need to continue to press forward and know that if I really let my higher power led me, the blessings will follow.

Mich~ Hoping tomorrow works for both of us to chat about the ma issue-of course only if you want to. If you want to, just give me a time…I’m open all day. The only thing that would hinder me IS if the exH is around-he should be off to work- should be that is.

GG~ Yes, you can be the youngest of the triplets. (((GG))) I think the order you girls are in sound pretty accurate. Though Mich is in need of just as many, many, many hugs, and lots of love and support- she is the feisty one out of you three- not at all afraid to express her self when she is angry : ) GG- just have to say that I could relate some with what you’ve been feeling regarding *feeling anger*. Do know that expressing anger, feeling a little anger is not a bad thing infact it is a normal healthy human emotion (when of course it’s not misplaced and not out of control). I’m glad you got pissed yesterday (though I didn’t quite see where you did-but I’ll accept that YOU felt YOU did). And there is nothing to repair my lil sis’…I love you and am thrilled to see your growth and so very, very happy that you are here, that you are working on you, and that you are learning to trust.

Need~ Boy do you and GG have a lot of things in common. It’s truly amazing how and why certain people connect up- and with that just said…we all need to know that we were brought together for a reason and we shouldn’t attempt to hand that back to the one who brought us all together- this thread, the people here are a blessing to each other. And I can bet that our family here will continue to grow but in the meantime lets rest assure that if we are feeling growth, if we are feeling strength from having each other in our lives, than there is a reason. Oh and Need- I have a little time here to make a quick visit over to the NC Thread. I’ll pop in there and say hello.

AmryAngel~ so glad that you are still around!! I haven’t been on your thread since the night you felt uneasy posting after reading that one comment.

Cyndra~ Hope all is going well…where are you?!

Alrighty I’m off to go do some reading, then I will be heading off to the grocery store…I’ll check back in later.

Take care my sisters and my AAC family. Love you all : )

November 5, 2006
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sorry i missed you LL...

we missed you here...

Am I right, big sis, about the principles of HALT?

I know that you have attended Al-Anon meetings.. I went to one a while ago..

I am thinking about getting the book ONE DAY AT A TIME

November 5, 2006
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Now I know why I am having the codependency issues right now....

I had a therapy appointment tomorrow and she cancelled earlier today.

I will not meet with her until the following monday...

November 5, 2006
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GG??

MICH??

LL??

CYNDRA??

Army??

November 5, 2006
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Hello All,

Sorry I haven't been around at all today. Today was hectic from beginning to end.

I realized yesterday that I hadn't shet a single tear for the sxo aka FIB. Let me know if you need translations for the acronyms!!!

I had Chinese yesterday afternoon. Stopped by work to check on the damage done by the contractor who was NOT supposed to be working on Saturday. They broke one of the street lamps on the parking lot. They were removing trees, how the hell did they get the lamp that at NO trees around it? I'm still asking that question.

Today after church I went to the first annual cooking and entertaining show in my area. It was FABULOUS!!! I'm a foodie so I had a wonderful time.

I met Paula Deen's sons, Jamie and Bobby. They gave a cooking demonstration and gave us an update on themselves and their mother. Jamie had a baby 11 weeks ago.

I found a source for curry sauce and a guy who gives Indian cooking lessons. I'm so excited. I do IT for a living, but cooking is my hobby and stress relief.

Other than that I fixed a lamp that had broken during the week and hooked up my new DVR machine. It was a busy weekend.

Love you all. Sorry I haven't been around. Next week will be better, I promise!!!

Love,
Cyndra

November 5, 2006
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need, going to a meeting

November 5, 2006
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I HATE HIM!!!! I HATE MY LIFE!!!!

November 5, 2006
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Army what is going on?

November 5, 2006
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Army? What is going on honey?

November 5, 2006
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Mitch, everything just feels like it's falling apart, had 1 good morning/day, because he was gone. calling me on his way, home, and already arguing....

I can't be long here, but i'm already crying and upset and he's not even home yet

November 5, 2006
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LL,

[b][u][i]Will 9:00 tomorrow morning still work for you?[/i][/u][/b]

November 5, 2006
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I HATE HIM,,,I HATE HIM,,,,WHY CAN'T HE BE NICE, HE EVEN GETS ME ALL WIRED UP ON HIS WAY HOME.

November 5, 2006
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See I can't do it ...I give up....I amjust not that talented...will 9 still work for you tomorrw?

November 5, 2006
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I can never do anything right to his standards...

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