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Afghan sisters...LOOKING FORWARD...
November 5, 2006
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Good morning again girls....

kousin kroika...that was SO FUNNY!

GG--- sorry to hear that you did not
get too much sleep last night...
I did not get that much either...but I have to admit that I did rest peacefully for the first time in a long time... thinking about ME -- and all my sisters and WE are in the PROCESS OF HEALING!!!

Ironically I lost my cell phone last
night... quite honestly I was thinking about reporting it as lost and if I do indeed find it afterwards, I was thinking about throwing it in the river.. a release...a symbol of me letting go..

Before last night I probably would have panicked...

November 5, 2006
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Have you girls ever read the book

HOw to Break Your Addiction to A PERson.. WHEN -- and WHy --Love DOesn't Work by Howard Halpern, Ph.D

November 5, 2006
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No,,,right now need, I am struggling with the Codependents Guide to the 12 steps,,,and also have in a locked closet, the Courage to Heal,,you know the sexual abuse book and workbook...that was when I was trying to work on things alone and it was too much for me....

My crew is all getting up slowly...gosh, they stay up so late...hoping they are getting ready for church...need, how old are your boys?

November 5, 2006
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Oh, and need, love the name pond scum!!! It cracks me up every time....Let's all get together and make up a name for LL's asshole and vote...that would be fun....

November 5, 2006
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Ok girls, I have to go pick up meds for my kids...BUT, I will be back...

I love you GG. And I miss you terribly. I am surprised you weren't willing to share the afghan with the "hottie"....

Anyways...I love you all girls. I will be back..

Mandy

November 5, 2006
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No,mich, not laying in bed with someone else's man, even if he is a hottie!!! I love you too, mich, so, so much!!!

Just finished making breakfast while coughing all over it! ugh...I used one dozen eggs, half a loaf of bread for toast, one pot of grits (hate them, but my family likes them), and about 2 dozen pancakes...all for these college kids while they are laying on blankets watching crap t.v....yes, I am so codependent...Now, I am getting hungry and there is nothing left...hmmm...going to look for something....

November 5, 2006
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Hey GG---

good afternoon... The boys are:
Matthew age 9 and Jake is turning 7 this Friday...

Pond scum-- well, i cannot take credit .. Ma Strong named him that one night.. she said " he was just about the level of pond scum.. wait., take that back.. He IS POND SCUM"...

MICH-- good to hear from you this morning.. I do hope that the kids will be feeling much better and soon..

GG-- I have the same book about the 12 steps of codependency..
ANd I also had the Courage to HEal book as well... have not dragged that out of the closet..

I found the cell phone.. DId not report it lost/stolen and I did not throw it in the river...

But I do remember reading that whatever fears a person has, to write it down on a rock, and throw it away... what do you think?

November 5, 2006
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I don't know if you girls read the horoscopes but here is one for today:

The sun transitioning through the realm of Scorpio has a stinging nature. Its stinger is the brutal truth. Maybe it comes through your best friend, boss or mother-in-law.. Maybe it comes from a dream or a glance in the bathroom mirror. But it comes, the plain truth. At first it may seem like a punishment, but it is really a gift. The Scorpio sun feels personally responsible for our transformation, and therefore urges us to look at the thing that is blocking our change. A glorious Taurus full moon at the top of the week helps us employ all of our senses to accept what we learn.............

November 5, 2006
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GG-- how are YOU feeling today?

said that you were coughing.. does your chest still ache?
any fever?

just thinking of you and hope you are feeling better

November 5, 2006
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GG?? MICH?? LL?? ANybody here in

AFGHANISTAN?????

November 5, 2006
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That's it GG---

I can throw it all away

down at the river

near my house

where there is

POND SCUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

November 5, 2006
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And before I forget, MICH, you are

NOT STUPID!!! We all have done things that we should not have done to ourselves... Please do not feel that you are stupid... You are moving forward ... with us all...

November 5, 2006
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and a person that is stupid is unable to do the things that you have done... and is unable to look at themselves closely..

You are moving forward, MICH and we are all here moving forward together...

November 5, 2006
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need, I am here,,,been picking up after all these people I spoil...making beds, washing clothes, etc...

about the courage to heal book,,,maybe one day, the triplets can work on it together, just an idea...

about feeling better, actually thought the powerful, expensive drugs would have worked faster; I am better, but coughing a lot, blowing my nose a lot, and still the persistant headache, but good news, less pressure and pounding in the head and no fever so far...but I need to be a lot better for work tomorrow...let's hope...No bonks today LL!!! okay, only if I deserve it...

November 5, 2006
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p.s. I have hardly left the house for a month except for work, grocery store, and walmart/target...That is so not me,,,I love to go and I love to shop for things for my house, etc...I never start Christmas shopping til the week of Thanksgiving when I am off, but I was supposed to start early due to the surgery...Haven't started because I have been sick...I really like to put a lot of thought into my gifts, shop around, and budget carefully.

need, I need to go to a coda meeting, but with all the kids here, who knows. I will go to one today though, bound and determined after yesterday's fiasco...you should try it..got to get going on those steps to recovery....

November 5, 2006
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GG-- you are right... i am going over to the paltalk now.. see what is there... glad to hear that you are feeling less pressure...

please LL, no bonks for GG... you can give me an extra bonk instead...

November 5, 2006
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GG--

no meetings there..

THe boys want me to play monopoly Jr with them now...

then have to clean.. do laundry.. etc

i do not have a choice since i am

a single mom.. and with my ADD I have

to jump when I can because otherwise I will forget or get distracted...

so while I am "in tune" I better go..

thinking of you all

need

November 5, 2006
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need, go to google/askjeeves or whatever search engine you use and type codependents anonymous msn and when you find the site, I think they have a meeting schedule...try it and let me know if it worked for you...

November 5, 2006
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ok GG---

Be right back

and thanks

November 5, 2006
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this is strange..
went to google and askjeeves

and it says that cannot be displayed

while offline

but I am not offline

November 5, 2006
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i am still here and i am still trying GG... be right back

November 5, 2006
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OK found it GG

have to get new password

because I tried logging in too many

times and did not remember password

uhhh......ADD perhaps

I am so used to doing things like this

that is why I want my son to embrace

his ADD so when and if he goes through
these symptoms... forgetting, misplacing ect. he does not think that he is incapable, lazy, stupid

November 5, 2006
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need, I had the same problem,,,i think that have different nicknames, emails, and passwords everywhere and I am still confused...about it...I really need to write them down...any luck?

November 5, 2006
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remember need, that this site, and all those sites are anonymous...we have to protect ourselves, ok?

November 5, 2006
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I know and understand GG---

This is so frustrating but I am trying to be patient..

and GG -- pleas be reassured that I understand

on the one coda website i did sign in using need2heal... one person posted and no one since then

that's ok??

trying to reset email address and get password

but I really want to get going on attending CODA...

thanks for your guidance

and support and love

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