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advice27
January 19, 2006
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i was dating this guy for 1.5 yrs and we had a mutual breakup 4mths ago we've been talking and seeing each other again still being intimate, ive asked him several times whats going on between us or if he wants to get back together he cant give me a direct answer but when i dont bring up the relationship he persues me lthe last month hes been calling inviting me over to his house initiating everything! how do i take this?

January 19, 2006
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It sounds like he's initiating everything except a committed relationship with you. If you're having sex with him, you deserve to have a direct answer. If he refuses to give you one, but still calls you over to have sex with him, it looks like his intentions are all about sex. If you let it go on like this without any committment from him then you can probably expect more of the same. I personally think you're selling yourself short, here. What would happen if you withheld sex from him - would he finally give you an answer, or would he find someone else to fill the void?

January 19, 2006
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If he was interested, he would be direct, to the point. He would express right away that he wants a relationship. No answer is your answer. He wants sex and likes you but he does not want relationship.

January 19, 2006
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iin my first statement i stated that we are still having sex. were still doing some of the same things that we did when we were together but even if we dont see each other we still talk. when we see eahc other its not all sex i just cant get a direct answer but when i told him i was going to a b-day party with a male friend he was calling three hours later to see what i was up too and his reaction that i went with a male was surprising. i dont know if i should tell him im seeing someone else of just not take his calls for awhile.

January 19, 2006
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men get jealous if another guy is involved. Men can be territorial when it come to a girl even when he intention is not a relationship. The attention is really not about you but claiming you. He is not being direct. I am sure it is not all about sex but if you are interested in a relationship with him and he is not, then I would simply not take the calls, and be direct. Telling him that you are seeing someone else is a lie. Men appreciate a girl who is direct.

January 19, 2006
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when i have asked him what he wants to do his response is maybe, will see. but yet were doing things together staying the night together i know that we share a lot of history and ive been to pushy on some issues like marriage but were in our mid twentys and i know the electricity thats there and the connection and i have this gut feeling that things aren't over we've been through thick and thin together but maybe im being impaitent???

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