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Advice please! Cheating allegations!
March 2, 2018
10:34 am
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Hello all, I have just joined this site seeking advice so apologies if I have posted in the wrong place!

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and used to see each other 8 years ago as teenagers! I cannot express the love I have for this man. He literally is my best friend my world my everything! I couldn’t imagine my life without him. We don’t have the perfect relationship but no one does. I just adore him for who he is and how he makes me feel.. well.. most of the time.

So last weekend I went to a local pub for s few drinks with a new work colleague. My partner was working on nights. I very rarely go out at all. I was texting him during my night out. Not to suit him but because I like to!

Around 1am we went back to my work colleagues flat. (Female. Lesbian. Lives with her girlfriend). I was texting my partner arranging to meet but to be honest I was quite drunk and closing one eye to even text! I ending up falling to sleep and woke up around 5am had missed calls off him when I answered as I woke up he went mad! I didn’t even remember falling to sleep!

Never did I imagine he would think I was cheated. I thought he’d be angry at me incase I wasn’t safe and I didn’t text him back. I don’t know what he thinks happened. Whether men were there or I was at a mans whether it was a kiss or intercourse. I have no idea.

He’s blocked me. I get the odd msg saying I’ve really hurt him he loves me but could never get back with me etc... I’ve sent hundreds of texts, emails and calls. But he just doesn’t believe me? I’ve told him how I love him way too much to ever hurt him or put my hands even near another man!

I know people will say leave him he doesn’t trust you but he has never had a reason to doubt me. I can’t imagine my life without this man. He is my world and I feel so lost and empty without him.

My word clearly isn’t enough for him to believe, but I feel like I should be doing more than letting him walk away even though that’s his choice. I really don’t wanna loose this guy 😥

Any help advice or opinions will be much appreciated. Can I prove it? Can I win him back?

March 6, 2018
3:48 pm
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If he truly loves you, he should be trusting you. Patiently wait for him or let him go he doesn't come back.

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