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advice on what to do-sexually abused
July 8, 2009
12:36 pm
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The fear of telling isnt as exstensive of the pain this has all caused.. but the fear of telling is still big enough to make me not be able to tell.

I have been doing that but i have a feeling that when im talking to her my mind will be racing so fast that i will forget all of it.

hopefully today will go well.

July 9, 2009
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Hello Trying to Heal:

I hope your appointment went well.

Hope you are ok and your therapist was able to help with the anxiety.

M & S

July 9, 2009
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=/ My mom came in for most of the session becaus so i wasn't able to ask ehr about her obligations.

but we did work on my over all anxiety.

t2h

July 9, 2009
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Very positive that you worked on your anxiety.

Sorry your plan was derailed, but your Mom must care a lot to accompany you, and that is VERY good!

Can you email or call your therapist and talk to her before the next session so you can ask her about her obligations?

The answer to your question may also be available online from your local state government department of health or child protection.

July 9, 2009
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i have checked online and could not find it.
and im afraid if i email her she might say something to my mom. idk why but yeah.

July 9, 2009
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You are resourceful! 🙂

Do you really think your therapist would jeopardize your relationship without knowing what you were concerned about?

You know her and like her. Do you think instead she would be very cautious and try to support you while still observing the laws?

Would it help to ease your concerns if you knew one way or another her obligations? You are caring a heavy burden and you are going to feel better once you start treatment for it.

You may have to risk asking her if you want to move forward.

July 9, 2009
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I dont think she will but i dont know.
yeah you're right she probably will but idk im still afraid.

It matters what her obligations are... if she doesnt have to tell then i will be able to with out a doubt.
but if she says she has to i dont know if im going to be able to..

I know and i want to be free from this burden but i don't know at what expense.

July 10, 2009
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So you conclude that most likely your therapist will be supportive of you and want to protect the trust you have built between you.

I think once she knows the problem, she herself will assist you in telling your Mom and intervening with any consequences. I believe she will support you and help you deal with your fears.

Your first responsibility is to your health and well being. You know what is necessary to improve your life. And you deserve to be happy.

Yes, I understand you are afraid. But focus on the other side of fear, on the relief, healing,and peace of mind that will result in unburdening yourself. You will find the courage within yourself to move forward.

July 11, 2009
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i think she will help me out to the best of her abilities.

i hope your right, because i'm still searching for courage and still haven't seen sight of it.

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