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ACES Needs some help AGAIN
February 11, 2004
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Alright, so here is the situation, I have had almost a week without talking to him or seeing him because he has been in Cancun, and I kinda feel good, because each day I miss him less and less, and I have a new date with a new guy on Friday, who I met out last saturday night, BUT then I have to pick stupid up from the airport on Sat. morning, so do i go on this date anyways, even though I feel like Im cheating, even though Im not dating Stupid and he's probably having sex with anything he can down in CANCUN , or do I wait to totally end it with STUPID before I go out with the new guy, I like the new guy, because he isn't like stupid, he is much more mature, and he doesn't call me every two minutes. SO, what sounds good, any advice cause Im totally confused,

February 11, 2004
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Hi Aces, forgive me for butting in on this, but I havent seen my 'queen' since 2nd January, and it is actually getting better. You will feel a sense of achievement if you don't go to meet him, - someone on another thread said "send a cab for him" - and go on your date with Mr Newguy. What you might feel if you do this isn't guilt because of cheating, - it's desire to see 'stupid' maquerading as guilt.? I could be wrong, but I tell myself any twisted excuse if it means I get to meet up with my queen.....
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February 11, 2004
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Yeah, send a cab. Do not go get him. Or just let him fend for himself. Still go out with the new guy, but just don't get too involved with him until you are sure you are not rebounding. I think also that although going out is good, that everyone needs some quality alone time to get their heads back on straight after a break-up.

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February 11, 2004
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I agree. Go on your date. Don't send a cab and don't go. Have him get a cab for himself or call a friend.

February 11, 2004
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MEC: you crack me up,,,I should but I think we all know I won't do that.

February 11, 2004
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Yeah, I know. Isn't it funny how we can all give the best advice, but we can't take it and apply it to ourselves?

February 11, 2004
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Aces, how old are you?? and what do you do for a living if I may ask?

February 11, 2004
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Im 25 and I work at a law firm and the police department

February 11, 2004
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Im not married, there is just me, single never been married, the thing is I cant get ahold of him until he actually flys in to denver you dont think thats kinda mean

February 11, 2004
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What do you do at a law firm Aces? I still stick with what I said before, go on the date, don't even warn him that you are not picking him up. Have him fend for himself. He's not your problem and he's a grown man, so, let him figure it out!

February 11, 2004
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Aces,

The way he treats you is mean.

You are still providing him with a ride by sending a car.

Z.

February 12, 2004
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I say go out and have some guilt-free fun with your date. If you have already agreed to pick ex from airport, I think its only fair that you should honour your word and do it. But be sure to give him the icy politeness: no hugs, no lingering smiles and certainly no probing questions about what he got up to in Cancun. Pls remember to stand your ground and let him know he wont have you running around doing things for him anymore.

February 12, 2004
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OK - let me just say I love you guys, you crack me up, SO guess what ex called yesterday from CANCUN huge fight and we only talked like three minutes, he started saying I was out dating guys while he was gone, and whats wrong with me, and then I told him that everyone knows that you go to CANCUN for sex, so he throws it in my face that next time I go anywhere he will keep that in mind, then he told me he didnt miss me cause he's not going to give me that while Im out on other dates, PLUS new guy called last night, we had a fun conversation and so forth, it was nice, I do insurance work at a law firm a lot of investigations, and so forth, for insurance companies, plus we do personal injury, employment law, criminal, and other stuff, kinda all around but mainly insurance. So yeah thats the new news, I can't beleive hes been gone almost a week and when he does call we fight, cause he thinks Im out having sex, then he asks me can you drag your ass out of your latest dates bed sat. morning to pick me up,, yeah great

February 12, 2004
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Did you say "um NO"

Tell him sex with myself is better than a date with you.

Hell with even sending the cab - let him walk.

Maybe he'll get frostbite.

February 12, 2004
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Zinnie - you are the best, no kidding, I can't beleive still that after a week of not talking or anything, he has to start a fight when he calls, I didn't even go out on a date at all last week, I went to a friends house warming party and that was it, and he throws this stuff in my face, what a freak, I am who does that? I ask you who does that stuff, BLAH BLAH BLAH thats all I heard from him, and he's the one in cancun and I am not sitting there accusing him of sleeping with anything down there like he probably is

February 12, 2004
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I think he needs to have arguing or he isn't happy, its just not natural

February 12, 2004
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If the guy thinks you are up to something, thats his guilt talking, hes been up to no good, specially the way he treats you
best advice, leave him alone, let him rot, and treat yourself well.
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February 12, 2004
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So did you tell him "no"?? to the ride to from the airport? Perfect opportunity to have done so ...

February 12, 2004
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NOOOOO I didn't tell him NO, cause Im a dork and a Wuss, but I think part of me wants to see him I know thats bad bad right, whats wrong with me,

February 12, 2004
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Nothing, I probably would have done the same thing in your place, against my better judgment. 🙂

So, nothing is wrong with you. It's hard to let go, have things end, and especially sometimes when you think it could have worked but something stupid made if fail. I understand how you feel.

Maybe your date will go well on Friday and you will oversleep on Sat. and forget to go get him or something. I wish that for you! 🙂

February 12, 2004
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MEC: thats why we think alike, I could just see it though, he would seriously kill me if I did that, I mean literally, he would freak out, so I don't know, besides he doesn't come in until like 10:45 and I normally don't sleep past 9:00 maybe 10:00 on the weekends, so how are things with you and HIM??

February 12, 2004
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See the help please! thread, I posted an update this morning.

February 12, 2004
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I WROTE TO YOU ON IT MEC

February 12, 2004
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Ok, i will look.

February 23, 2004
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What do you mean what did I do? I picked him up from the airport and then he left again to go to NJ guy goes more places than I do with a job, and now i have a new plan, its called kill em with kindness I wonder how he will react since we have never truly been nice to eachother for a day in our entire time knowing eachother

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