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Aces? How are things with you?
February 9, 2004
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When I first logged on, you were one of the people that I was learning from. In further reading I saw that you were having a similar "problem". I was just hoping that you were ok.

February 10, 2004
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LCV- Hey things are okay with me right now, I know we are kinda going through the same thing, Im doing alright right now, since HE is gone in Cancun right now, and won't be back until sat morning, Ive been wanting to do the DETOX thing, but I think that will be ruined when I am suppose to pick him up on Sat, Morning, I don't know anymore, its weird because I actually miss him, yet Im also kinda glad that he is gone for a little bit. Im super confused thats all I know. I think about the good things in the relationship which are few, but I know that the hardest thing is knowing that I care, and that all I really want to know is that he cares, but I also know that shouldnt matter, because he is a jerk, so how are you doing? Anything new occur

February 10, 2004
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Nothing really new here...just life , a few arguements over small stuff, a good talk addressing some big issues. I will continue going to my DV class once a week (that seems to really be helping me with the education/info stuff) and seeing the therapist. I am working towards the day that I leave this all behind..I really can't wait, but it is a process...
Since your guy is gone it's probably easier to deal with your issues. Just remember that missing him does not equate to loving him or respecting him OR liking him. I will miss my husband too, we are just used to them....I hope you find your strength when he gets back. It really sounds like you are a girl with alot going for you, and I just want you to be happy.

February 10, 2004
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LCV - I want you to be happy too, and I hope that BOTH of us find that, and we will because we are here for eachother and we can get through this, just like we can get through anything, and you have just as much going for you, I think that through time, this will get easier and easier and they say knowledge is power, so all we have to do is keep learning, and educating ourselves, and we will overcome this and we will "win" in the end.

February 10, 2004
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Yes to all of that!!!
I will keep in touch and I hope you will too....Have a great day and I will talk with you very soon!!! Enjoy your time alone....: ) Saturday will come around too soon!!!

February 10, 2004
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Yes I know it will, and then I will have to do some serious thinking

February 11, 2004
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LCV- So I think that I am finally getting over him a little bit, He is in cancun right now, and I wonder, I bet he is sleeping around, and the thought of that makes me want to puke, and every day he is gone, I don't miss him as much. So that is good, I just wish I could be done, but I know it won't be that easy. I have a date with a new guy on friday and I'm actually a little weary.

February 11, 2004
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Well, if you are open enough in your heart to go on a date with someone else that might be a good sign that you are not "in love" with the present boyfriend.

I am not one to talk...because I used to do this EVERY time before I was married, but do you think you should be alone rather than dating more? I KNOW it is easier to get over one guy for another...but it might do you some good to be alone and really work on you. Like I said, I have a hard time with this concept too, but it's what people always told me....

BUT....if it gets you away from the bad guy.....Follow your heart Aces...just be happy

February 11, 2004
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Yeah I know I should be alone for awhile but this new guy I think it would be a really slow thing, we only met on Sat night, and he called me on Monday night, and we planned for friday night, hes nice, got a good sarcastic yet funny sense of humor, a year older than me, and has a lot going for him, want to hear the weird part, he lives right across the street from the Stupid GUy, yeah and they like to go to the same bar, very odd I know, so I will see Im going to go out with him, but not plan on anything happeneing really fast or anything, I think he is the type that would want things to go slow you know

February 11, 2004
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I can see that you are already letting him control how fast things go? This is a sign to take care of yourself first. Make your own rules and boundaries, and take charge of your life and not leave it in the hands of others...like a card game. 😉

February 11, 2004
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Well, like I said...if he gets you away from "bad guy", I guess that is a step in the right direction. Them knowing each other and living across from each other sounds like your'e playing with fire. Please be careful....

February 11, 2004
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I don't think they know eachother I just think its an odd coincidence, so how are things with you? Any new events?

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