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Abuse or not?
July 3, 2000
9:10 pm
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I got married in February to my daughter's father, because I love him and I want him to be aound for my daughter, the condition was that he had to leave his gang banging friends.Everything was fine, until late May00.He asked me if he could have a get together with his friends every Sunday, I agreed as long as his attitude didn't change towards me. We'll it did. He started verbally abuseing me and disrespecting me. So I left, and moved in with my mom.That was a month ago. Since then I maintained an intimate relationship with him, and plenty of contact, but I also started going out to clubs and happened to give my number out to some guys. This sunday he happened to be here visiting and picked up the phone when one of those guys called. He got very angry and started insulting me and also hit me hard enough in the face to give me a bump and a bruise. Once he got home he cried and told me not to play with his emotions, and to please give him another chance. This is a person who has gone through abuse himself, it's no excuse and I know he needs help, but what can I do??

July 4, 2000
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Stop playing games. If you are married to someone, you do not go out and give your phone number to guys. Both of you need a wake up call. Don't let it be your child. Talk, resolve, get counceling, whatever it takes, there is a child involved here and you two had better realize that before something happens to remind you. Grow up, grow wiser.

July 4, 2000
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I definitely disagree with men laying hands on ladies ( no matter what the reason is )

July 5, 2000
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it may be that this is not the right relationship for you. it does not mean he can not be a good father to our daughter. but unless you are FIRM about what you want and he is willing to get help, then you both will continue in this cycle.

take time to work out what you want, and then decide how long you are prepared to wait to see if this man also wants the same. if he does then he has to work on himself.
peace
Haz

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