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Abuse - help on this one?
August 10, 2018
12:34 pm
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theboneman21
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My wife needles me all the time. We live in a neighborhood full of little kids. Speed limit is 50. I always drive slower because..kids. she gives me fried for that. There's two ways out of our neighborhood, she gives me grief for taking a different way than her.

She asked for an open marriage, I agreed. The rules were don't ask don't tell, nobody in our house, no messing around with each other's friends. So, she had her fun. One night I went to a movie before the gym. Spur of the moment thing. I turned my phone off (because, movie theatre)

Next night she's on me accusing me of seeing someone. Which shouldn't even be a discussion based on the rules. A month ago, I went to DMV to renew my license before leaving town. There was a 1 hour wait so I got a haircut. She messaged me that afternoon to run an errand I said I could not because I renewed my license and was gone an hour from work. She said "oh you should have met me for coffee" and I said "I wasn't thinking. I was trying to kill time so went to the barber"

So that night had supper with her and the kids, then left town. Got back a few days later "oh, you got a haircut?"

"Umm.....yes"

I said it in a sarcastic way because she saw it all night the night I left.

"So who are you seeing?"

"What?"

"A new haircut is a sign of an affair. I find it funny you got a haircut when you were gone"

"Ok first off, I got it cut before I left. Secondly, affair? Open marriage, no affairs"

"You did not get it cut before you left"

"Ahh, yeah..should have met me for coffee....went to barber...that ringing a bell?"

"That never happened and you didn't have it cut before you left"

"I guess you'll see next week when my license arrives"

So a week later, license arrives and I show her

So just this past weekend she was filling out a job application and I was to take the kids out. I did to the local park. I saw two kids get stung by bees or wasps inside of 7 minutes so i got my kids out of there. We went home to grab a snack and come up with a plan b. She gives me a lecture "im trying to get this done and you only had them out of the house for 2 hours. I need to be in the right headspace because there's a flow."

I told her we just came back for a snack so I could come up with a plan b.

She starts saying the same thing again "I don't think you get it. I need to be in the right headspace..."

At that point I cut her off and said "I know, we're not here to stay. " And I started walking toward the stairs downstairs. Those stairs still have a baby gate. She stands in front me me and shoved me. Now, I'm big dude so when I say shove, she attempted to - she put her hands on my chest and tried to shove me backwards.

I try to walk around her. She closed the gate. When I try to open the gate she seats my arm and then places herself on the gate and was leaning on it. I said "I have to use the washroom"

"Well you are going to hold it. I'm talking"

"I already heard what you said and I told you were not here to stay, just to get a plan b"

"I don't care, you're going to listen"

So I walk toward the gate again and grab the handle. She starts trying to pry my hand off the handle. So I start slowly opening the gate with her leaning on it. During the moving, it sort of snagged her foot a bit..she got a tiny scratch. Keep in mind, that's the only way out of the house, unless I jumped out a second story window.

Thoughts?

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