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February 26, 2005
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New thread.

February 26, 2005
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This is the new thread. I agree with the ac/pre being the same. The rest following the word be paired numbers. So you need the case number? I really do not want to put that out in clear view to be seen. You are looking for case results of this commissioner? Good luck on that one.

I tried the site for the political campaigning contributions and that did not come up right, so I must have gotten it wrong. I will go to the State site again and see what I can get. You are so clever with all this stuff, all of it!

February 26, 2005
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Hey Sew and OMW:

Making progress? I just had an intense game of Yahtzee on the computer w/ the twins. whoo hoo. Ben won.

Where r we on things. See a new thread started. Thank you. My computer got slower and slower about loading and getting to the bottom.

February 26, 2005
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OMW & SEW: Anybody home?

February 26, 2005
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HOWDEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! Remember Minnie Pear?
good idea to begin a new thread.

Sew I remember you talking about your shop it sounds like it was wonderful...very intricate design an ddetail for the dresses, did yo have a favorite?
Not case # . Trying to leave little hints that miight make this more fun or easier. Has anyone caught on yet, or figured out what I am trying to do...or are you guys ignoring for obvious reasons?

February 26, 2005
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Hey there you are. Been lookin for ya.
So how's the night been?

February 26, 2005
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Honestly and personally? I have one word...ARGHRHHAHREHAHRHAHRHAEEARGHHH!!
On my side not good...everytime my oldest son goesover to my sister's and brother-in-laws's house he comes back to me with an attitude. My sister has never liked me, and now I do not like her...and my b-in-law, about a year ago, I got into a terrible fight with him. I do not stand down very easily...I am reserved to an extent, but I speak my mind when I have too. They both, and my sister thinks I am so stupid...because she thinks she has to do EVERYTHING for everyone....because she does!!! But not me, she is talking about my parents..she thinks she does EVERYTHING all the time, and she doesn't. They bad mouth me in front of my sons, and I just do not assoicatewith them unless I have too. My sister is very codependent, is having health problems, drinks too much, is 6 yrs. older than me, and she also is very sweet and has a big heart. People think we are twins even though we are 6 years apart. She will ot talk to me aout anything jus complains all of the time, asn so does he...genrally about me and my life, but it has always been this way!! I got so angry today when for the second time my son came home and said Mom, D & R think this and that, and that you are not doing this, and that this is wrong and this is wrong....I said What the H? again?

It makes me so mad!!!
But went to Costco, got some food in the house, and a movie to watch. Think I will take tonight away from this. Tomorrow is church and visits with my mother, so may not be on until tomorrow pm.

HOW ARE YOU DOING? sorry for the raving above, just venting.

February 26, 2005
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hey, sorry have been on my email. do you check yours regularly? just wondered. I got one from my first love today. funny. hubby wasn't thrilled, but he knows him.

February 26, 2005
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And I can't type at times..what a mess up there.
Also thank you for all of the information you found today, I will also take a look.

SEW: will talk to you later. Hope everyone just can take a break and take it easy. btw, did you all catch my hint is the next to the last thread I sent on our other thread? the part in parentheses?
Love and hugs.omw/S

February 26, 2005
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Interesting mamaC..what prompted that do you think...and how did it make you feel? First loves....they always hold a special place in our hearts, no matter waht it seems, even if we move on without them

February 26, 2005
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Yes, it was so funny coz I had to make a big deal out of the email. I jumped up and said mamacinnamon just got an email. yahoo woopee. yeehaw. Hubby was not happy. lol.

February 26, 2005
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OMW & Sew: Gotta get some sleep. Could just fall on my face. So tired and frustrated w/ statutes. I use yahoo and it doesn't run very fast.
But will try again tomorrow.

February 26, 2005
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OMW

missed you tonite. I have the case number for a document for you to look up: SUD:561-#-3344 files at the court house. It shows many interesting things and the ac being the same as the pre.

February 26, 2005
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OMW

I am making a list of questions to ask. If you have any please let me know to add them to my list, as mamac gave me a couple. I will call the attorney monday for sure. Have some friends who might have some insight as well. I really have to back over all this stuff you have given me. So I need to do into the statues or not? How did you get there? If you are about tonite, let me here from you, ok? thanks

February 27, 2005
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Great will make use of that case # tomorrow! There is a website that MamsC recommended on the other thread, a few in fact. It was a good one. If you can't find it let me know and I will go back and look for you. She also recommended Chapter 76 of the Wisconsin State Statutes, which I have not looked at yet, but I will. Going to break for the night, soon...you should too soon and get some rest. For the statutes go to FindLaw.com. Click on State Statutes up in the right hand corner, I think, then it will give you a list of states to click on. Once you get into Wisconsin, look on the left side, has a list of chapters which each chapter is a different subject, click on it and go into it.

IF you feel inclined, we have done some more work on my dream thread near the top of the list here, take a quick read, very revealing...fun.
Night!

MAMAC..your heart was a little bit lighter today...nothing wrong with that!! sweet dreams.

February 27, 2005
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sew, when is your court date again?

February 27, 2005
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going back and reading these some...regarding the finanacials..tpe in the city and here, we have a list of commissioners for example. Their pics are in there, can click on a pic, or just type in the name of each person who has public records for financial, adn see if it works that way. You might even want to take a look at the Ethics Board in that same city..you might find some discrepancies for how your case is being handled maybe as well.

February 27, 2005
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Court is in two weeks I think, I'll find out Monday. Am very tired , long day and am going to try to get some sleep. take care all.

February 27, 2005
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minniepear?

February 27, 2005
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OMW & SEW: Take the day off??
Workin on Statutes, say HI when you get here, if you get here. maybe you'll get here. I feel abandoned.
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minniepear? what's that?

February 27, 2005
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Mini Pearl right..my typng again. Talk to you later...checking out some things.
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February 27, 2005
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Well thanks for clearing up the minnie pearl issue; think I was getting a bit confused! But that wouldn't be the first, nor the last time! LOL

Just stopped to say I have been working on those papers and more questions in case I can go with the deposition thing. Guess it depends on trying to get a handle on the big picture of things and which direrction is best. BE back to talk later tonite!

February 28, 2005
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I keep asking myself why would my
stbx not realize his mail is being forwarded to me after 2 months of receiving his mail? He knows I got some important mail last month and yet this month he has all his bills paid on time, without the bills in his hands. How is he able to do this? Can't he figure out what is going on? He is not stupid, just crazy, nuts. He must have called each bill company in order to have paid them on time, with the correct amount. This is crazy business. It is driving me bonkers. It is like he is just sitting back and seeing what will happen.

Another thing, why is this so important for me to fgure out his reasoning and intentions behind this?

The reason it is so impotant for me to figure out the WHY of his motive has finally come to me. If I can figure out the WHY, then I will be able to figure out what my REACTION would be to his ACTION!

After all, this a game to him. He knows my triggers. If I can figure out his game, then perhaps, just perhaps, I will be able to not REACT but to_____. Have to get my codependent book out.

Think I have the answer why he is doing this stunt.

More later after I get some coffee and donuts.

My treat! Coffee and donuts for all!

February 28, 2005
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SEW....You have nailed it on the head! It is a game, and your failure to react takes all of the fun out of the game. God, I swear our STBX's must be twins.

I stopped REACTING to his games about a year ago. This drove him nuts, and his behavior became more and more insane and irrational. He had to raise the bar to see if he could get a reaction out of me, and when he got nothing, he had to try even harder. Things got downright bizarre, but I kept my cool and refused to react.

Then I filed for divorce, and he got even nuttier. I didn't react. I think the bottom line in refusing to react is DETACHMENT...if you are not emotionally attached, it is easy to just ignore someone's behavior. I had detached from him long ago, and it made it so much easier to just roll with the punches when he tried to get me riled up. Locking me out of the bedroom, removing all of our wedding pictures from the house, telling the kids I was having an affair, accusing me of poisoning his food, breaking into our house after leaving voluntarily, buying a dog and letting it destroy things.....these only made him look more nuts in everyone's eyes. And I refused to REACT!

I'm so proud of you! You get it! It is such a major step in the process....YOU GO GIRL! You are definitely on your way!

(((((sew)))))

February 28, 2005
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Are you gonna leave us hangin? Enlighten us now that you know.

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