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A step in the right direction? boo is wondering.
September 3, 2005
10:09 am
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I wrote this the other night, I AM wondering what everyone thinks, I have had no replies yet.
After that long talk Joe and I had, I remembered where I put the rings, I was going tosell. I told him that and asked if I should still sell them (our wedding rings and 2 that he has bought for me) he said, well I am not putting mine back on if thats wehre you are going with this.. I don't get it, I need someone to tell me what has to be done to mend the mistakes I have made, I don't remember them all , but he does, and i just want to pick up the pieces, get help and move on.
any suggestions?

September 3, 2005
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I am missing background... are you still married? Do you want to stay married? Does he? I hear a lot of self-blame in your post, is he owning up to any of his part in it or is this "all your fault" somehow?

September 4, 2005
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Thanks for responding Ginger,
We are married, well married but not leagally, we decided that it was better this way a long time ago, but now he is talking like it is his life and my life, not our life anymore, and yes he is the perfect one, he pays bills he works 40-60 hours a week, he makes extra money on the side. I just sit home on my butt all day and watch our dauhter, do laundry, dishes, vaccuume, my ebay store, feed, dress, bathe Elaina.. you know, homemaker stuff. but I spend his money so it is all my fault because I just dont get it. and really , honestly I dont, that is the big problem, and why I want us to go to counseling so badly, because I want him to hear from someone else that i don't get it, not because I dont want to but because I am litterally unable to.
that function just dosn't exist in my brain, you know the one, where youa re able to work the same job for years, and pay bills and keep all the finances straight,,, well I cant I have never been able to do it alone. The thing that really gets to me is that I told him this years ago when we first got togethr, that if we were to get along and get ahead, that he was going to need to handle the financial situation weather I was working or not. ... And we do both want this to work, it just seems like he isn't as willing to ask fro or accept help.. what do I do about that?!

September 4, 2005
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here is the first thread.. more backround I guess the title is

YAAAAHOOOO A STEP IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION!

September 4, 2005
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