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A joint,an airplane,a felony
August 9, 2001
1:31 am
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tacobell
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My daughter lit a joint in the bathroom of an airplane while in the sky.She was areested when we landed and taken to jail.
I am her mother ,I love her and my grandaughter with all of my heart.I do everything humanly possibel for the both of them.She is a GOOD girl Bad girl Good girl Bad girl.She now hates me.Its killing me.I payed her bond and she is gone to her fathers.I bought her a house ,she hates it,I bought her a car ,she hates it ,I pay for my Grand daughter to get ready for the olmpics in ice skating.She says its not enough.I am at witts end. hHow much trouble is she in?I know its a felony.Do you think it was another cry for atention?Dont you think she knew how bad it was to lght a marijuana stick in an airplane?the whole plane smelled it. Needed to talk ,thanks for listening.

August 9, 2001
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I think it is time for some tough love!!!! If you can't to the time don't do the crime. Simple as that!!!!!

August 9, 2001
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Stop bailing her out....be sympathetic but no more MONEY...

Love her not her actioons.

August 9, 2001
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Mom, I am really sorry, but this is the same story in so many situations.
She sounds like a spoiled, self centered, egotistical, person, who thinks they can do anything they want at any time. Never a consequence. Unfortunately, your grand daughter, has a great role model so what do you expect. People must earn their self respect, and its impossible to do when they are never given the opportunity for the struggle. Like damaged, and janes suggested, its time to just say no. To my knowledge its a felony to even have a cigarette on a plane. Her punishment will depend on her record and what state is doing the proscuting. Yes, she is in big trouble, depending the amount of money you were considering on paying for her lawyer, which I wouldn't if I were you, seriously. Let her pay the price for HER choice. Why should she hate you, its her self that she is hating right now, and be prepared for her to truly act out. This is so sad for you, and I would suggest that you go to Alanon, immediately. It will help you to understand how she has manipulated you, and will continue to manipulate you all the way to the poor house, and depression, if you don't draw the boundry line right now.
I hope you make the right choice, she will have to at the minimum pay a heavy fine, go to a program, perhaps do time, or community service, have this felony on her record for life, which means each and every job application she will have to check the box yes, be restricted from certain employment, aid, do drug testing, and possibly probation for a long time. She really did it this time, lets hope through your effort, and breaking of her denial, that this is it.

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