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a job interview tonight and it looks promising
August 13, 2005
3:42 pm
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forever and a day
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I was just looking through the want ads and I saw this add for a live in careprovider for an elderly woman. No medical care involved. Just making sure she takes her meds and cook and clean for her and more or less companion type situation.. The daughter that I spoke to wanted to hire me right now.. she wanted to knnw when I could staart. I was a little blown awaay when I told her that she could call the nurses and doctors that I know quite well from taking care of matt would give her refrences and she didnt even what to check them out.. I think this might be a good theing.. Its live in with free room and board with a $2000 salary. its perfect. That was what I was making taking care of Matt. After Matts medical expences and etc.. now not and expence to consider,, this is going to be quite a bit considering that it is just me now since the girls are gone and I am on my own. No rent to pay and all other expences are covered.. I should be able to save some money quite fast now..

I hope this isnt too good to be true because this is exactly what I was looking for. I was hopeing to be able to use some of the expiersece I gained over the years taking care of Matt for something usefull. I dont have to do any medical care like I did with Matt abd that is what I wanted. SO now here I go again with something else I start to get excited about and as usual it will once again be too good to be true.. but I at least have to keep positive and at least give it a try right?? it this comes through, not only will in answer my financial problems. but it will also answer my upcomming homeless problem as well. I was really getting frazzled about what it was that I was going to do. I only have 2 weeks top left here before they throw me out on the street. Nice gesture after taking care of his son for 16 years dont you think? Oh Well. that is one chapter in my life that I will be more than happy to see close is the day that Matts dad cant control me or my life anymore. Its been too many years now that we have been under his thumb. I will enjoy that freedom awaay from himm. But that was a small price to pay when Matt was around. But now he is Blaming me for everything and wants to hurt me anyway he can. His words were"now that Matts not around to protect you lets watch you wiggle your way out of this one." I told him I had a tube of lube and I was going to be slip sliding away.. I hope I can hold up my part of the bargan after all.

I found out later that the reason he evicted me was bedause he wanted me ant the girls to live in the cottage he built on his property and live rent free in exchange for labor..i mean slave labor.. he would control us and have us right where he wanted.. I didnt go along with it so he dicided to elimminate his financial problems all togheter. makes sence to me.. blame me for the death of his son and he has a legit reason to renig of a promise he made to care for us.. nothing wrong there.

So now I can be the one free from his control and get my life back wheree I can live the way I want to on my rerms not his or anyone elses.. I sure hope this works out.. another good thing.. its in a different county than this even though its not too far from here, so I will still be able to see my youngest daughter when ever and not be within his reach.. even better yet.

August 13, 2005
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Good Luck with your interview!

August 13, 2005
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Hi Forever,

Good luck with your interview tonight, I hope everything goes well.

Try to go into with it with a positive attitude as opposed to "it's too good to be true". Keep an open mind and rely on your strengths. You may be suprised.

If it doesn't work out the way you hope, I believe there will always be another opportunity for you waiting in the wings.

Good luck and go get em'

Lolli

August 13, 2005
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Forever, that sounds awesome! I will keep you in my prayers tonight. Please keep us posted:)

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