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January 26, 2000
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Well, I take a shot of adaptability and a few Marguerita's, too. One of my favorites...as long as the rim is salted!!!

Does adaptability mean rolling with the "punches" sort of speak? Right now I think I'm doing pretty good, but might need a bit more...just in case.

gst,

Yes, yes, yes! Scorpio is the sign of life and death, beginnings and endings, alpha and omega... Passionate, intense, dark, and capable of regeneration. That's me. Had one "Near Death" experience eight years ago...came back with a new attitude. Scorpio's are also the sign of the Phoenix who rises out of the ashes and flys away to a new life. We can be hard to get along with, but make great, and very loyal, friends.

January 26, 2000
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Hi Kitten,

Yes, I think I know what you mean. I've had some very interesting scorpio friends.

How do you think this has best helped you in life?

January 26, 2000
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gst,

As my therapist once said to me; "most people who have gone through what you have would be in an institution". I have had some major life experiences...many of them unhappy. Who I am, perhaps as a Scorpio, has helped me survive. Scorpio's seem to have a fasination with death as a continuation of the life process. It opens up the whole question of which is "real", physical life or death, which might be spiritual life...Heavy, man.....!!! Scorpio's also question everything--we tend to be over-analytical. This can be a problem at times, but can also come in handy if anyone else needs to know or find something. But enough of that...don't want to sound like a ditz. What made your Scorpio friends interesting?

January 26, 2000
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Hi Kitten,

I think I understand what you are saying. Yes, very heavy.

You asked what I found interesting about the Sorpio's that I've known and I think it would be the seemingly innate ability with people. they lsmost can't miss, almost psychic in quality.

I am Aquarious through and through but not always accepting of it. If you could change one thing about your Scorpio nature what would it be?

January 26, 2000
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gst,

My sense of the dramatic...to me, life has always been a three act play.
Often, I wish to be more balanced, like Eve, the Libra.

January 26, 2000
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Hi kitten,

Very fascinating. You are very lucky to have such tallents.

How would balancing out your sense of the dramatic help you better in survival though? What would your expectation be?

January 28, 2000
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Hello VRJ, Gst and all,

My lines are back up and Im so happy about that, never knew I could miss my phone so much.

GST you asked what made me go back to him? His persistance and my being weak at the moment. He talks very well and know how to get to me, but I have learned actions speak louder than words and so far his actions are turning up the same as before........soooooo....

VRJ

I am much stronger now than ever so I believe my lines of commuication are very open and not clogged anymore. I have learned and grown stronger this past year..by reading all posts on here.........talking one on one through email with another who has helped me very much.....

My presentation turned out great and I made it! I can't remember all I said but I did it okay....Thanks to all of you for your advice and sharing.

Always
Bel

January 28, 2000
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kitten,

yor said that you wish to be more balanced, like Eve, the libra....

Yep, I wish to be more balanced, too šŸ™‚ at least sometimes. Sometimes I want all the passion and sense of drama I can get and I still feel bored stiff by my internal drive to see and examine and try to take into account every bloody aspect of a situation.

By the way: if all our life and our world was made out of earth, air, water and fire like people believed at the time when our astrological sign sceme was invented: what would be your favourite element, and how would you deal with the other elements?

January 28, 2000
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Hi bel,

Thanks for getting back - congrats on your phone line and your insight into your situation. It sounds like your on a good track.

Also, congrats on your "brief talk".

Eve - nice question, I sometimes wonder if it isn't a better way to understand human nature - perhaps we try to get to close. I'm air. I combine well with fire. Water is ok, but can't really feel as close and earth is only ok too. Also combine with another air but watch out for the resulting ideas - may be very far out (ha and yes - too hot!)

RE:Game - I am wondering if anyone has any well being? I'm trying understand that better. I think it will be helpful to understand.

January 28, 2000
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bel, I'm glad you're back and doing well.

gst, you have to get that within yourself. Noone can give it to you. But God will help.

January 29, 2000
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Hi vrj

I'm wondering about that. But, well, being it seems to be a part of actualization. So I just wondered if anybody else had some? Just wondering.

January 29, 2000
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Eve,

Water, water, water...I am all about water. The flowing in and out, swirling in all different directions.
Water is part of the life force... pulled by the moon. To me water is very primitive...very sensuous. Like the womb--life giving. How to interact with the other elements? Use them...combine with them to create another entity--somthing different. I like the idea of being a chameleon. To move about taking on changing colors. Guess I'm getting too "out there". But, yes, water...I feel safe in water...for me it is very comforting. Years ago I used to teach babies(six months to 2 years), how to swim. They trusted me...and I'd like to believe it was because I trusted the water.

What am I looking for tonight? I could sure use a big dose of positive thought...I have life changes coming my way and even tho' my frineds tell me it will work out the way I wish, I am still hanging on to the negative.
In exchange I have silliness to offer.
Silly, belly laughs and funny faces. Any takers?

By the way Gst, water and air do go together...they create carbonation... you know, that bubbly stuff that comes in sodas and gives you gas. OOPs I might have to rethink that as a positive. tee hee hee hee

January 29, 2000
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Hello kitten,

Well, aren't we full of belly laughs tonight. Very nice. Everybody can use a belly laugh now and then again!

I completely have never thought of that before! How great. Yes, I wish you many carbonated belly laughs. You may have as much carbonation a you need. I love belly laughs and have a lot of "air" to offer.

You are so funny. That is great!.

Bye.

January 29, 2000
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Im back but as for doing well, not to good. I thought I could handle the situation but it seems to have gotten to me again. I know I will bounce back but may take awhile, I had hopes that maybe this time it would work. Talk is cheap isn't it?

January 29, 2000
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hi bel,

Yes, talk is cheap - but it is the only means of self actulization. So we persue it. keep going, you will do it.

January 29, 2000
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gst,

what is self actulization? Can you explain it?

What I don't understand is why would someone pursue you and then when they have you ignore you? When you try and leave then they start to pursue you again? I feel he is trying to drive me crazy....

January 29, 2000
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Hi bel,

You are typical of frustrated women!You know what I think? Men in general have a good ability to compete in the "beginning" game. Yes, that is to hunt and to find the meat, but there is also the "middle" game which involves understanding what itis you caught and the "end" game keeping them for life. So it goes. the women is better at the later, the man at the beginning., So I think he is still "hunting" but that is only one mans opinion. Good luck.

Bye

January 29, 2000
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Self actualization? Understanding who you are to the rest of the world.

January 29, 2000
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I don't believe I am frustrated in the least. I give honor, loyalty and trust and I expect the same from anyone, if you don't have that then your not worth knowing or caring about.

Thanks

January 29, 2000
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hi bel,

Didn't mean it in a bad way - just my way of explaining how I think the two genders think about things. My point was more like the point sugessted by the "mars and venus" people. While there are similarities, the intent can be different. Just trying to help.

Sorry if I explainbed myself badly, I'm not always so good at it. But I am trying.

What do you think he is blocking?

January 30, 2000
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Hi Gst,

I know your trying to help and I do appreciate it very much. I don't know what he is blocking he always tells me please don't hurt me. He says he was hurt when his wife divorced him ten years ago and it has stayed with him. I don't think he is willing to take the chance, he is afraid. Oh well im hoping to close the chapter on this and move on as I should have a long time ago. I tried for over two years and its not enough and he does not meet me halfway.

Thanks very much for your kind words I guess I need some strenth now...got any??? šŸ™‚

Always
Bel

January 30, 2000
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yea, lots, but how do you think it will help you?

January 30, 2000
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gst,

about self actualization: finding out who you are to the rest of the world, eh? Would you consider everybodys opinion - or would you choose the people you ask for an opinion very carefully? I tend to ask the more important questions about myself to people where I know the answer they will give - silly, isn't it?

And do you do self actualization with yourself? Find out what you are to yourself? Does it work?

Hm. I guess I have some inquisitiveness on offer. And some feeling wonderfully exhausted from a day of outdoor activities, wish I could trade that together with the mucle ache that will come tomorrow. šŸ˜‰

January 30, 2000
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Hi eve,

Congratulations on feeling wonderful. Can't have too much of that.

Re: self-actualizing, I think all you described is what goes on. You have to have an opinion about yourself in order to understand yourself relative to others etc. It's a matter of understanding strengths, weaknesses. Then you move on. Make sense?

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