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a friendship built out of stone, crumbled
April 2, 2007
9:01 pm
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midwestbulldog
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i had a friend that our friendship was more than anyone could imagine. it was the best. we did everything together. (it even go to be more over time.) well she had got into some trouble and was looking at possible felony charges. thank god nothing was pressed agaisnt her. i stood by her side through thick and thin of it. and i can't say she hadn't been there for me in the past as she has. as if it wasn't for her i don't know where i would be today if even alive. but over the past year things changed and she drifted farther and farther away from me. we use to talk and see each everyday. our friendship was so close it was just it made both of our days. then through the second year of this friendship like this it started going down hill. we would just talk on the phone numerous times a day. then over the last year it became once a day, then it turned out to work it to where we haven't talked or seen one another in like 6 months. i hate it. i miss this friend. i did something that i was looking at possible felony charges,(which i was not charged) and she was there in the beginning but now where is she? she don't want nothing to do with me. she is afraid that if she talks to me or anything and someone sees her that they will think badly of her. i think its b.s cause people are going to think what they want, when the want and about who they want. i find it as just her way to distance herself from me and the close friendship we had. yeah, i didn't tell you she was married. but we(her, me and her husband)did things togeher. no, not sexaul, things friends do like hanging out and going places. i really miss her. she use to tell me when she wouldn't talk to one of her other close friends on how mad she was. that there wasn't any sense to it and she was really ticked off. she didn't understand it. well now she has done to me what she didn't like done to her. i have always been there for her and to this day i would jump in front of a train to save her life but i don't think she knows it. i miss her alot and as a friend love her. i wish we could just talk like friends and it not be one sided. ( her side)

April 2, 2007
9:33 pm
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chelonia mydas
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Midwestbulldog,

I am sorry that your friendship isn't as strong as it once was. Have you tried to tell her all that you wrote here?
If I were in your position, I would try to talk to her, maybe go out to eat or have her over for dinner and just let her know how I felt. Then you have at least given the friendship a chance. If she doesn't want to be friends anymore, than try to find out why. If it is something you can and are willing to change than at least you will have that opportunity. If it is beyond your control, at least you will know that you did all you could and can do you best to move on from there.

Sending comfort your way,

Chelonia

April 2, 2007
10:48 pm
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atalose
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I guess I am confused, at first you said your friend got into trouble with almost having felony charges against her. Then you state it was you who almost had the felony charges against them? Who was it or was it the both of you?

Atalose

~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

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