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July 22, 2005
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Just Lost: In my humble opinion: Yes. I think it would be good for you. You can share your thoughts and feelings, and get support. Just try a meeting. If it isn't for you, no big deal. Nothing lost, only something gained, that you tried something new. I hope you do ok this weekend. I need to sign off now, must get the weekend rolling!

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July 22, 2005
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Just Lost

She's not completely out of my mind.. It's just not as painful as it use to be. It will take time to get her out of your mind. The no contact is what helped me a lot... Also, keeping busy... You are already joining a lot of groups, etc. Your social circle will grow faster than you think...

Don't have any 25-36 year old throw aways... Believe me... you don't want any right now... If a great one came along, you wouldn't be mentally ready and she would smell it like a dead rat in your drawers..

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July 22, 2005
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Frayed,

I feel compelled to ask... How is it that you would know what a dead rat in your drawers would smell like???

I guess it's better than a dead gerbil!!! Did you ever hear the story about Richard Gere??

I'll say no more.

Goodbye!

TC

July 22, 2005
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2B

When do you think you would get online?

I may have a crazy weekend with my daughter probably moving in. But, I would try to get online if you know when.. I will know more and more as time goes by when I will be available. I think my daughter is coming at 10 tonight (after a movie). My son wants to go skateboarding or surfing tomorrow.. Daughter needs to get to the house to get her things... Crab boil at 6 tomorrow night. Sunday, no definite plans yet... But, it can fill up in a hurry.

Having a free buddy has helped tremendously.. We help each other. Our lives are mirror images of each other... You wouldn't believe the similarities..

2B.. feel free to use the one legged man analogy next time you feel it's appropriate at work, etc..

I can't keep up with the posts in this thread.....

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July 22, 2005
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TC

I didn't hear the story about Richard Gere.... I did hear it about a local weatherman 16 years ago...

I worked in a place where we had some rats in the ceiling.. We poisoned them... Sometimes, they die in the walls, etc. There's no mistaking that smell.....

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July 22, 2005
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Title sounds shakespearean..2bfrayed or NOT 2bfrayed...that's the question.

no?

it also sounds like someone would reply to the title "2bfrayed?...I ain't scared!"

July 22, 2005
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Kathygy

Thanks for all of your support regarding an off this board meeting. I agree with your statements and appreciate you sticking your neck out and "going against the grain" a little..

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July 22, 2005
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well, time to take a leap of faith for the first time in my life. headed to singles dinner as we speak

July 22, 2005
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Hi Guys,
I have been away dealing with some issues regarding my son. To be honest, I don't think anyone gave me another thought...but anyway.....

I don't know about going on the "trip". It is not because of anything going on at AAC, it is about me and the things I am dealing with right now.

Have a good time.

Hope

JL: Good for you going to the singles dinner!!!!

July 22, 2005
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in 30 minutes, it will be 24 hours of no contact.

July 23, 2005
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Glittered

I also thought about the Shakespearean and/or play on words of the title..

Frayedknot/2bstrong is also kind of catchy.

I guess there's just something about our monikers....

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July 23, 2005
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Frayed, are you around? Needed to chat for a moment...

July 23, 2005
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tc, I'm certainly not frayed (nope, no buff man in his thirties here...), but I'm here if you just need to talk or if I can help in any way?

July 23, 2005
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TC

I'm back...

What's up?

July 23, 2005
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Hi frayed...sorry to butt in guys, glad you found each other:)

July 23, 2005
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EF...

Thanks for making me younger than I am... And for insinuating that I'm buff... You made my day.... :o)

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July 23, 2005
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Hey EF

How long ago did TC post? I just got back... May be leaving soon..

How are you EF.. sweet dreams last night?

July 23, 2005
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I just saw it jump up a couple of minutes ago, like literally three or four.

Yeah, last night I dremaed I was trying to catch a plane and the roads where all deserted so I could drive to the airport as recklessly as I wanted...good times.

DO you mean you may be leaving soon for good? Or just for now?

July 23, 2005
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EF

Not for good... Just have a very busy day.. I don't know if you caught it on the other threads or not, but, my 18 year old daughter is moving in with me today.. Her and her mother are not behaving very well. It's complete chaos in their house. My oldest son (16) seems to be in charge of the house and everyone is out of control. I'm trying to divide an conquer..

Maybe your dream was indicating you are on your way to better mental health and nothing is standing in your way (no traffic). The airplane is going to take you to a far away place (mentally) where you will be much happier.. That's my interpretation if you felt happy about the dream..

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July 23, 2005
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Hey, I'm back! Sorry, just stepped away to get another cup of coffee. Need a double jolt of caffeine today.

I just wanted to say MCO 8-19 5:30...Follow?

TC

July 23, 2005
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Hi EF,

Thanks for jumping in to see if I needed help! You are awesome!

I've been searching high and low for my "Dictionary of Dreams" book to look up some of the aspects of your dream. Years ago, I was addicted to analyzing my dreams. I have always had very vivid and disturbing dreams and they NEVER mean what you think they do.

Especially the one where your teeth fall out!!!!! That's BAD!!!!!

I'll let you know when I find it.

TC

July 23, 2005
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Yes I do!!!... that's great!!!.... How are the Red Sox doing this year?

Are you doing better today? How was your evening? Any plans for the rest of the weekend?

Frayed

July 23, 2005
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Frayed, I like that! Even if it isn't what it meant, there's no harm in letting myself think about it in that possitive light...myself, I thought it meant that I shouldn't eat sweets before bed anymore.

So exciting about your daughter...my father and I started to get really close as people and adults around that age.

July 23, 2005
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I have been a BAD Sox fan this year! I guess you could say that I don't really get very interested until they make it to the Playoffs, then I get all caught up in the mania! Fair weather fan, maybe?

My night was good. I cleaned my house (the downstairs anyway). I'm going to tackle the upstairs this morning... I went to the mall and bought two books and came home and cuddled up on the couch and read. The kids are with their Dad this weekend so it was very peaceful here. I actually enjoyed the solitude.

Can I plan on a ride from MCO?? No big plans for the rest of the weekend. I need to take my daughter to a party tonight at the town pool from 6-8:00... Sure, her Dad could take her, but I enjoy seeing them for a couple of hours on my OFF weekends... I get my FIX, then they go back with their Dad and I have some more time to myself.

That will be nice to have your daughter with you. She sounds like a very mature young lady (by the conversation she had with your last lady friend)...

TC

July 23, 2005
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EF/TC

I'm telling you I had amazing dreams when I was first going thru this stuff.. The interpretations are based more on what items mean to you personally. For example, EF.. The chandalier at your ex's parents means something to you. That's their power.... It made a lasting impression with you when you first saw it. In your dreams, it represents your fear of their power.. That's why it keeps coming up in your dreams. That's why you are backed up against the wall. Away from everyone else. That's why they are standing under it. You are getting better. The chandalier crashes on them in your dream. That means their power over you is crashing down on them....

That's my interpretation. That's what your subconscious is telling you. You are on the right track..

Frayed

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