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February 28, 2006
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Has anyone been successful, or know how in the world, to stay at #2 phase (friendship) for a while when you feel very attacted to someone and you both mutually want #3 (physical).

it's easy to stay in #2 when i am not attracted but the feelings mess me up and then it's hard for me to have a friendship after the relationship doesn't work out. I am afraid I missing out on some really good friendships.

i need help with just taking the relationship for what it is and trusting a higher power that i am not going to miss out on my life partner.

this feeling of: "this is it" "this is the one" corners me into a definition of "love" that maybe isn't reality. maybe i am confusing love with romantic feelings. I think i watch the bachelor on tv to much. what do you guys think?

February 28, 2006
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The only way I know of is just to not put yourself in the position (no pun intended) of doing it. Don't be alone at each other's place, don't go parking in the car alone, avoid secluded places. Take your time and enjoy the slow development. Like a rose opens slowly in the Spring.

February 28, 2006
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dear artist. your freaking me out a little. the last name of my x boyfriend was rose. and i've never said this but i feel like i want to wait and give him time to get his thoughts together. i believe that i am the best thing that every happened to him even though we got physical to soon (he's a composer-i am a lyricist) it was hard to keep on business track. he freaked out when he began to have to many feelings for me. i think it's his past (mom cheated on his dad) he's afraid that's gong to happen to him but that's my guess.

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