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2 alone... please read this
October 16, 2006
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need, I too struggled to find out how to get help with coda. I went to coda.org and found no meetings near. Good thing, not ready for face to face anything...But if you go to codependents anonymous at msn (you can type that to google to get the exact site), there are discussion boards and actual meeting to attend. I have attended some and it is unbelievable. It also helps you to not feel alone and to know you can't do this alone.

Wanted to pass this on, because I care...

October 20, 2006
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bump for shyshy

October 20, 2006
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Thanks Needtoheal: What you've been through with this guy sounds so horrible, yet if you read some of my threads you'd be saying the same.

I've posted so many times about my ex that I can't even begin to tell you what the titles are.

When I start to get all wound up in his smoozing I remind myself that this man had no problem moving his ex in with him regardless of what I felt and that keeps me wanting to stay away.

October 21, 2006
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bump for doubleloss

October 21, 2006
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need to heal
wow. from outside, to me , a stranger, it sounds insane. i hope you are strong to get out for good. you know you are. a 36 yr old man that lives with his parents, has anger problems, hates women? run, run. of course, how easy it is to say it! gosh, if it was that easy i think most of the people in this site would just leave. it would be nice to "turn off" the -i love the jerk- switch and just move on. Maybe kids help? to make better decisions, because the poor babies then pay for the parents mistakes. arrrghh, i wish things wouldn't be so complicated.

October 21, 2006
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thanks doubleloss for listening and reading all that i posted... As far as my children, I have kept them at a distance... and they are trying to cope with their father who is living with his girlfriend and her two kids..
unfortunately what i hate is the fact that my ex-H has not changed and treats them the same way as he did me...
as far as this man that i describe, i don't think that it will be too difficult for me to RUN...
My friend who called me last night before I posted, said that there is nothing wrong with me... i am having a hard time adjusting to being alone when the kids are with their dad...and that the reason why i had been thinking of him is because i was BORED...
i think i needed to get the whole story out...

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