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Sister in Law from Hell!
January 10, 2014
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I don't know what to do anymore about my sister in law.  She's a nightmare. 

I recently got married to her brother after dating for him for five years.  Things were tolerable with her until the wedding.  It's like something snapped in her.  She was unbelievably miserable for our ENTIRE wedding – everyone noticed.  Making rude comments throughout the photo shoot, making a HUGE stink about the seating plan, made up lies about my sister being angry at us because of a change we made…even though it was my sisters idea, and now not talking to us at all.  The reasons she's claims she's upset constantly change.

I tried to talk to her about her behaviour, but there's just no reasoning with her.  I confronted her about the stories she made up, which just made things ten times worse…probably because she got caught.  So, I just tried apologizing to her but she states she wants nothing to do with us.  She is SO angry at everything! Frown 

She's single for a reason, and I'm seeing why.  But she has a son, so she's a single mom.  Throughout the whole time I've known her, she always claimed she has it soooo hard as a single mother.  However she lives right across the street from her parents, gets free daycare everyday, free meals, free laundry, free pretty much anything – even two free trips last year from her brother and mom.  She works part-time, owns a house, and just bought a new car.  Sounds like she struggles so much….ya right.  Anyways, where I'm going with this, is that she is SO ungratful for all that she has.  She is the most miserable person I have ever met and I'm pretty sure I hate her.  Especially since she shot my apology to hell saying horrible things to me.  I can't stand a liar. 

My husband isn't talking to her either at the moment.  He doesn't know that I've tried to reason with her and it seemed to make things a lot worse.  I keep thinking about all of this and I don't know how to walk away from it all.  I don't want a relationship with her.  How do I get all of this out of my head so I can move on?  It's all I think of when I wake up, come home from work, and go to bed.  I want her and her toxic memory not infecting me anymore.  I'm too much of a good person and happy to be thinking about this.  Any advice on how to move on and stop thinking about toxic family members would be appreciated...

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