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My mother is mistreating my girlfriend and I can't get her to stop it.
May 5, 2015
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She's 19 and I'm 21. We've dated for 2 and a half years. I've always had a feeling that my mom didn't really like her even though she never said anything directly and my gf didn't really pick up on it so I was like whatever. But recently my girlfriend moved in with my parents and I and my mom has been horrible to her! My mom will blame my gf for anything and everything that happens. She likes to approach her when I'm not around and just...yells at her about things my gf has no clue about half the time. Food that goes missing, spilled food that my gf didn't even touch, the water bill, anything. My girlfriend is such a sweetheart and has been nothing but nice to everyone she meets. When this first happened I told my family ahead of time not to yell at her because she's sensitive but they don't care. My mom has made her cry more times then I can count. My gf seems so anxious all the time when we're home.. She has never done anything to deserve this and no reason to be hated.. The reason she's here is because her dad got married and his wife kicked her out on the street so they could give her room to the wifes child.. It was unexpected and I had to come pick her up off the street so I didn't have a chance to talk to my mom about this before it all happened. She was basically told to just get the hell out when the wife moved in. My girlfriend had to quit her job because I live two cities away from her dad. She's currently applying to new jobs here so she doesn't have to mooch off of my parents. My mom knows her situation and she's not making life here any easier for her..  I always put a stop to the drama as soon as I see it happening but it doesn't seem to help much. My gf has never yelled back at my mom or defended herself. She just gets all shakey and tears up. My mom even yelled at her when she was having a panic attack and I DID NOT let that fly. I just told my gf to go outside and I had to block my mom from following after her. My gf told me she doesn't usually doesn't have panic attacks unless she's stressed out or overwhelmed. How do I get my mom to see what she's doing to this poor girl and to STOP IT? We are trying to save up enough money to move out together. I want to get my girlfriend away from this but until then I just want my mom to stop bullying her..

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