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My Dad has falling in "love" with a foreign girl half his age.
December 8, 2014
5:35 pm
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not sure if this si teh right forum to use but i need help and hopefully can get some here


Ok, so my parents are separated (I live with my mom) and my
dad is now dating a young (27) girl from one of the Caribbean islands (won’t
say which). She is pretty (I have seen a picture) although I also know she is
poor. They met a month ago likely online as he has not gone anywhere since last
year. And we (my family) think he met her in person for the first time when he
showed up in the Caribbean Saturday (today is Monday).


We found out about this girl Sunday. From my sister who had
just gotten an email form my dad saying he was in love and such.


My dad is in his mid 50th. He is not in shape, like to smoke
weed, drink (not an alcoholic) and is generally not a "fun" guy. He
has a good job makes good money (around 80k I think).


This girl clearly does not love him. This girl ether wants a
ticket into Canada or money for her family and although my dad is a smart guy I
think he would fall for this shit.


So the good thing about this situation is he has not told me
yet so I can "prepare" for when he tell me himself in about a week or
so when he comes back from the Caribbean. he will only be here about a week before going back to the Caribbean to be with this girl again. All the info I have I have gotten
from my older sister (who is 31)


My relationship with my dad is good in the sense we see each
other every week and hang out for a few hours but this only started in the last
year after my parents separated. My dad knows I am very smart and hopefully
would listen to what I have to say about it all. That being said I have 0 relationship
experience with girls in my life so far (I am 18 going on 19).


I am perfectly ok with putting it all on the line and asking
him hard questions(like reasons why this girl loves him) and really trying to
drill it into his head that this girl is after money or a ticket to Canada and
does not actually love him at all. That being said I don’t want him to loss
everything to this girl and want to take the best approach to getting him to
realize what is happening. The worry is I tell him what’s going on and he shuts
me out and get himself screwed over by this girl. He could lose a lot and that
would be sad to see.


So I need some advice what to do to save him from that fate.
My relationship with him is secondary over him getting away from this girl
before he gets too deep into things and losses everything.

February 19, 2015
5:38 am
Dr. Basim Elhabashy
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Still your dad love that girl? If yes then you should explain then calmly the negative effects of it. If there is any close friend of your dad then you can also take help from him.

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