I have another post on here...40 views, no response. ok.

Maybe someone can give me advice on this one.

My oldest daughter had a son that will be 2 on the 28th.  We had an agreement that she would live here, contribute financially, and raise the baby as a family (along with my teenage daughter and boyfriend).

VERY long story short. She has not stayed a night here in 3 weeks; staying with her "boyfriend". His mother is there to "care for" his son, and my daughter has decided to also allow her to "care for" my grandson during the day. This woman is pilled out, lazy, overwhelmed, etc. THE BABIES ARE STILL ASLEEP AT NOON. 

She doesn't want to be here..fine. But I have decided that our battered relationship should not affect my time with my grandson. I have watched him during the day every day this week, picking him up and taking him back in the evening. 

Keep in mind, I have said NOTHING regarding the living situation...soaked diapers, dirty. SLEEPING IN A BOUNCY CHAIR. I just get him, bathe him, play with him, and take him back to "jail"...

She tells me today "you can't have him every day"; "trying to get him on a schedule"; etc. etc. WHAT????? I pick him up at noon and he MIGHT sleep 30 minutes during the day. Of course, I am accused on letting him sleep all day???

It's her LAST card to play with me, and she is using him as a PAWN. I could KILL her right now. She is DISPRESPECTFUL AND IMMATURE...just PLAIN STUPID. 

She has put me in a position that I have to move and send my youngest to live with her father. Being forced to move into one room with my boyfriend for 6 months to get back on track financially. She has cost me materially...but that will come back to her. I will recover. 

WHY IS SHE TAKING AWAY THE ONLY JOY IN MY LIFE???

DO I HAVE ANY RECOURSE???