Carefreeslc,

I feel for you because I understand how that feels personally. My parents are in a similiar situation and it pains me that I am unable to help as much as I did in the past. The fact that you are here questioning your intentions prove that you are not a selfish individual. Selfish people don't consider how their actions affect others.

Here is what I do. Every so often, I pick up a bill. I encourage them to find ways to better themselves in careers that are easy for them to pursue with their various health issues. I have also encouraged them to consider applying for disability. I am a big daddy's girl and mommy's girl since I am the youngest. With that being said, I sometimes pay for them to come visit me (I live in another state now) by saying "I'm lonely" even though I really just want to give them a break. My mom has began to babysit while my dad works security (kind of a desck job). I am so proud of how far they have come despite their health issues. At the end of the day, they're your parents. You know you wont let them fall but they do know how to take care of themselves. They did it before. Trust in them, motivate them to seek out options (maybe disabililty benefits), and if you can, be a blessing every once in a while. But do enjoy life with no regrets. I think you did the right thing. God bless you and your family!!