Hi all,
After being in a relationship for 2 years, we finally got married 5 months ago. His family are not really happy with this marriage, but they agreed to it only for their son. Post marriage, we were living with his family, he has a younger sister also at home. My husband wanted all of us to live together, so that his parents and sister start liking me. But, the opposite of it happened. Once he left for work, his mom and sister tortured me. They made me do all housework. In the beginning, I took it in a good manner, and did everything to make them happy.. Things started getting worse each day, and their behavior towards me also was getting bad. They even started creating misunderstandings between me and my husband. I had not told him anything earlier, but once things started getting out of control, I had to tell him. By then, they had turned him against me, they made him believe that I was the one torturing them and making them do all the work, in fact the truth was opposite. So, we started having a lot of problems in our relationship as well. I couldn’t bear it, his family just wanted us to get separated. But, one day he had come home early for some reason, and he saw what was happening at home and he understood that I was right and I was the one being tortured. That day, he apologized to me and after a really long time and a lot of hurdles, our relationship was back on track. But now, I have told him that I can no longer live in that house with his mom and sister. He also had the same thing in mind. We are planning to move out and start living in a new house. But, we do not have any savings for this, and his family is also not going to support us financially. So, we are thinking of taking a mortgage and purchase a new home. Again, we have never taken a mortgage, and don’t know much about the different schemes and interest rates, and which would be apt for us. We want to be prepared with all the requirements for a mortgage, so that things can be arranged fast. So, I was just seeing online to know more about this, and found this, http://www.nbmortgageteam.com/.....ur-income/, where they are discussing about mortgage kit, and what all we should be having. I wanted to know, is this enough? What else should we keep in mind , and what would be the best type of mortgage, something which could be arranged fast ?. We both want to move out asap, and restart our life on a fresh, good note and live happily without any issues now. Please help. Thanks!!