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Will I still stay with my live-in partner though there are hardships, sacrifices and against us?
September 4, 2014
9:29 pm
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mae1993
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I met this man in a call center industry. He was one of the security guard and I was once a call center agent... We have been together for 2 years and 7 months now... My family is still against our relationship because they know that this man can't give a better life for me and my future children... But, I fight for our love because I believe that with love you can survive and own a better future and be successful as long as we help each other and always understand each other...
 However my family wants me to pursue my studies and marry a foreigner or a rich guy to have a better life...That was there dream for me because all my cousins and aunt in my father's side already married foreigners and they want me to marry one someday...Now, I resigned from work and they want me to go back to Province to finish my studies and help me decide my future without him.. He let me go after few times in stopping me to go...But, I love still him though I love more my family....Will give him a chance to prove he is worth fighting for or cool off with him and let him prove himself that he deserves to be my man? I am having a hard time to decide...Can someone pls help me?

September 5, 2014
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I am sorry for your confusion.  I wonder how old you are?  If you are younger & by family you mean your parents, then pursuing your studies is probably a good decision.  Is it not possible for you to continue some kind of relationship with this man & continue your studies?  I understand that your parents want you to have the best possible life.  Perhaps they have worked hard their whole lives to try to see yours be a little better.  If you are very young, it is hard to understand sometimes that parents have experience in life so they worry about choices that young adults make.  In the end, you should make your own choices, but think about the reasoning of your parents.  Also, really consider what your goals for life are.  Perhaps you do not want to study, but learning when you have an opportunity is always a good thing.  Are you in love with this guy?  Is he in love with you?  I think if this guy loves you & you wish to pursue more education, then he should not stand in your way.

 

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September 22, 2014
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If there is still a chance to study then you must grab the opportunity. You should prioritized you studies and I think you family just want you to have a better life. If you really love HIM then I think you should fight for your love. But you must prove to your parents that He is worth it and you need to make them realized marrying a foreigner does not guarantee a better life.

October 3, 2014
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Hi There, I am sorry to hear about the struggles you and your boyfriend have been going through. I am actually a development assistant at a production company based in NYC, and we are actually looking for couples that are going through hardships, but want to work through it and move on to the next step in their relationship. If you are located around the NYC area, please reach out to me and I can give you more details about the project. We are looking for diverse couples, so once again, if you fit this description, just email me at [email protected]. I hope this are getting better with your boyfriend and family, and I hope to hear from you soon!

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