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This SHOULD be obvious to me, but i want to get someone elses take on it.
January 11, 2014
9:00 pm
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I feel as though i am on the right path and i think i know how to fix it (by doing what my husband says) but i want to hear someone elses opinion.


Is it wrong of me to want sex once in a while even though my husband works from early in the morning until mid-afternoon? we havnt had time away from our son since he was born, and we end up fighting alot because our son doesnt want to go to sleep around the same time HE does, therefore I CANT because someones got to stay up to watch him, then my husband gets tired and goes to bed before me because (very understandably) he works hard (from home on the computer so he IS here all day with us). He also does side projects in computer programming and YES he works hard and i appreciate every little bit of all that he does. I know i must sound like the worst spoiled housewife or something but when i say we dont have sex, i MEAN NO SEX, like NOTHINGGG because our son doesnt want to go to bed alittle earlier and my husbands sleep schedule conflicts with that and he gets tired earlier. I dont blame him for that at all but we all have needs (even him) and he doesnt even want to satisfy his OWN needs because its like he doesnt HAVE any now! 


We've been together for 13 year this feburary, and married since 09.

He gets frustrated that i dont go to bed at the same EXACT time he does even though we have a small child that needs attention and care too! and naturally i put him first! heres where it gets worse though. The last few times (4 now) we HAVE had sex, im just not getting off anymore....its like the flame has died and although i FEEL love for him, he shows nothing besides a mild friendship in return. He has gotten off every single time but its just numb in there and when i START to feel anything, hes done. He doesnt know who to warm me up, hes the kind of guy that just gets down to business in bed.


I completely understand that he works hard, and does all that he does to take care of us, and in return i say thank you to every single meal he provides when we're out (even though its been years) i STILL feel its important to make someone that supports you feel appreciated. i cook and clean, and care for our child all day (not trying to minimize what he does AT ALL there) just saying.


But am i missing something? could we use a break and maybe have our son go to his grammas for a weekend or something?? is it just me?

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