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My New BF
September 20, 2012
7:37 pm
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We jus recently got into relationship and every day we will meet up after work for a catch up and he always share with me, that he fall in love with me looking how matured and family motive i am. When we started our date he always say that his ex is a gorgeous gal. But recently he keep saying that he admires me how beautiful i am? I am little confuse if he really attracted to my physical or inner beauty. 


He also said that he would like to build a life with me and even can see unborn children in my eyes, he said i am his world. In fact i don't know how to react when he says all this, i just feel touched and at the same time whatever happen in the past is drowning me back. I need help to control my feelings in the past...

September 20, 2012
7:59 pm
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I don't see anything wrong about your BF talking about his ex GF, maybe he was just complimenting her BUT i understand it's somehow awkward to talk about what's already past. If you're still uncomfortble then tell him exactly how you feel and ask him if he has really moved on from his previous relationship. The more you go deeper in your relationship, the more it's hard to accept that one party hasn't yet moved on from the past and still clinging to it so before it's too late, settle things out between you two. That way, you would know how sincere his feelings towards you and how willing he is to fully forget the past and be with you in the future. Then you can come up with a decision whether to continue your relationship or just let go.


Hope that helps. Take Care!

September 21, 2012
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tread carefully here.  He has not let go entirely in my opinion.  He should not be talking about his ex girlfriend to you, particularly concerning her attractiveness.  Do you talk about your ex partners with him.  It's rude & he should know it.  It's the kind of honesty that is not necessary for him to say out loud.  It would really make me wonder.  How long have you been with him?  I would be confused by his mixed messages.  He needs to get over his ex girlfriend before he starts a relationship with anyone new.


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