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My boy friend is too possessive and insecure
March 29, 2015
7:51 pm
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ConfusedGal111
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Plz help

 

This is my story.

I have been in a relationship for 6 years now.I was young and in love with a guy..lets call him Mr A.We were planning to get married.We were together for 1 year happily and then things started crashing when I lost my virginity to him.and there was a pregnancy scare.A had just almost lost his house.So when he found out i wasn't pregnant he left me.I tried to win him back desperately ,but he kept pushing me away.For 2 months i fought with him and  begged him but no point.when i tried to talk dirty with him and said i liked they way he came on me, he said he peed.that was the lowest point of my existence.I went home cried till there was no water in my body ,even thought of taking my own life..realized i had hit rock bottom.

I accepted the fact the guy who claimed to be my husband for all that time has left me for good and now only thing i can do is move on.I started keeping some distance from him.i started going on facebook to talk to friends.i accidentally started talking to a stranger who i had mistaken for a friend(they had same name).We were good friends.purely platonic.Also we went on a class trip.We were split into groups and 1 guy in my showed some interest in me.During that trip A came back to me and said he wants me back.

We were happy again.He then sweetly asked me to delete the phone number of the guy who was interested in me.The relationship was new again .So i didn't wanna cause trouble.So i deleted it.

I feel like that was my first mistake.

Ever since he ordering started.He insisted he wanted the passwords of my gmail and facebook account.He checked it and started yelling that i was chatting with my friend online.He asked me to stop it immediately and i couldn't even say bye to him.he was a friend a had when times were toughest for me even though he didnt know about any of my problems with a.but i still did wht A said even though i felt it was wrong.

Time went on.I kept telling him that fighting with me till i give facebook password is not a right thing to do.Am not a person who spends time chatting on facebook or gtalk.But i atleast wanted the freedom to talk to my friends both boys and girls.He just couldnt grasp the concept of privacy.After years of saying this ,he has finally stopped going through my accounts.

 

Part 2 -My mistake

Now we a have a long distance relationship.i had a trip planned by my colleges almost 40 of them.A told me i could go but not play in water.But my friends pulled me to come play in water with them.I told A that i got wet and he shouted at me.

When the next trip was planned he ordered me not to go.but i wanted to go.Many girls were refusing to go because i wasnt there.He said he is coming over and i can choose what is more important to me.I begged him to postpone his visit to next week.but he refused.But he missed his train and could nt come.So i decided to go on the trip even when he ordered me not to.But i promised him that i would not play in water.and this time i kept that promise even though i wanted to have fun with my friends.

Later he looked through the photos of the trip and blew up.There are photos were one guy is standing close to me.his shoulder is touching mine.and in another photo i have bent down (not on purpose).He went mad .

he has warned me not to bend in public and has given me lectures about dressing styles.He says the guy i was standing next to was utilizing me and am not able to realize it.But he is not believing that i didn't do it on purpose.He is saying is betrayed him and never respected him.i apologised for days.

Now when i said in our 6 member team of 3 girls and 3 boys.When i said the current status of girls there was no problem.but when i said about the boys he got irritated .i said one sentence about them.he blew up.i asked what i said to get too angry.he said what i  have done during the trip is horrible is he can never forgive me for it.it sounded like i cheated on him.i took a photo with many of my friends in which one boy happens to stand close to me and i played in water with girls.i got angry too.very.i said i want sorry for anything i did.and he has done much worse things to me.

But he insists that wht i did was worse than what he did.

i know he loves me.But WHO IS MORE WRONG?

Am confused.

Am not sure if i should marry him because he is too possessive and very controlling.
Plz help me somebody

April 26, 2015
2:37 pm
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