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Is there any way to get him back?
July 16, 2014
8:27 pm
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Hello everyone,
We broke up for the second time because he didn't trust me that I would open up and share every side of me with him.

He lost trust in us.

It's the second time we broke up. He is American and I am Taiwanese. We had some cultural issues while dating, but compromising made it work. Recently he felt stressful that I clammed up when I am in a bad mood, even though I really tried to change (opening up to him) after the first breakup but still he said not good enough.

I know it's crucial to be completely open to the closest person and now he's back home for summer, and sees clearer that this problem is not good for future together if we ever encountered severe difficulties, we wouldn't be able to deal with them 'together'… I said I'd wait no matter for how long because I am willing to change, but he said don't waste your time.

I really want to get him back so I want to hear different opinions and know what to do.

July 17, 2014
2:32 pm
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You may have to move on without him, and if you truly want to be more open practice it!  Then, when he sees you have changed for you he might want to work things out.  Chasing him only makes him run in the other direction.

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