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Husband is too atached to his family:
October 13, 2014
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Mine is a love marriage.I am a christian and he is a muslim.Somehow we convinced our parents and got married.Its been 10months we got married.My husband is too attached to his family.Before getting married  he was not attached to his family.Just for name sake he talks to his parents and sibblings.But after marriage I could see  drastic change in him.He has got 2 younger brothers and 1sister.His first younger brother is with his father helping him in the business,his 2nd younger brother has completed his engineering,I cant say that he has completed his studies,because he has got three papers arrears.Only God knows when he will be completing it.We are living seperately for job purpose,his parents are residing  at a distance of 4hours.None of his sibblings give respect to me.They behave like they are elder to me.His sister is 10years younger than us and she calls my husband by his name only.Not only his sister even his brothers doesnt respect me or my husband.But my husband dies for them.Even though they are not  good he asks me to make call to them and talk he forces me to purchase dresses and fancy items for his sister.he doesnt bother about the way they treat me...but he wants me to fall on his sibblings feet.I just hate it.His parents needless to say they look at my husband just like an ATM machine.My husband earns 25k per month he spends that entire amount for his family.With my salary our house expenses are going.I pay the rent,grocery items.With that my salary will be empited i hardly save 3000 or 4000rs a month even that he asks me to give to his mother for her expenses.Both of us earn and we dont have even a single money as savings.His first younger brother was asking for a bike which costs 88k his mother was saying this to my husband and she was asking him to buy that bike for her second son..My husband said yes...i thought he would never plan for it..but seriously he got him that bike by loan...i got so irritated because that bike is of no use he has already got a kinetic honda.You please tell me which wife will be quiet seeing all these??Meanwhile the house which we reside now has got some problem and the owner asked us to vocate the house.So we were searching for a house we dont have money to pay as advance..only then i opened my mouth saying...y did he buy the bike?he started shouting at me he called me selfish,bad women etc etc...i got so hurt...he said if there is no money then you have got your jewels pledge it and get the money...i got so angry and i said u will take loan for your brother...but if its for house purpose you will ask me pledge the jewels.....he was telling me that i have no rights to talk about his brothers/bike/money..i said in such case u have no rights to talk about my jewels....he didnt expect i would say this....he got so furious and he called me bad names...i really dont know how to handle my husband...please help me

Mine is a love marriage.I am a christian and he is a muslim.Somehow we convinced our parents and got married.Its been 10months we got married.My husband is too attached to his family.Before getting married  he was not attached to his family.Just for name sake he talks to his parents and sibblings.But after marriage I could see  drastic change in him.He has got 2 younger brothers and 1sister.His first younger brother is with his father helping him in the business,his 2nd younger brother has completed his engineering,I cant say that he has completed his studies,because he has got three papers arrears.Only God knows when he will be completing it.We are living seperately for job purpose,his parents are residing  at a distance of 4hours.None of his sibblings give respect to me.They behave like they are elder to me.His sister is 10years younger than us and she calls my husband by his name only.Not only his sister even his brothers doesnt respect me or my husband.But my husband dies for them.Even though they are not  good he asks me to make call to them and talk he forces me to purchase dresses and fancy items for his sister.he doesnt bother about the way they treat me...but he wants me to fall on his sibblings feet.I just hate it.His parents needless to say they look at my husband just like an ATM machine.My husband earns 25k per month he spends that entire amount for his family.With my salary our house expenses are going.I pay the rent,grocery items.With that my salary will be empited i hardly save 3000 or 4000rs a month even that he asks me to give to his mother for her expenses.Both of us earn and we dont have even a single money as savings.His first younger brother was asking for a bike which costs 88k his mother was saying this to my husband and she was asking him to buy that bike for her second son..My husband said yes...i thought he would never plan for it..but seriously he got him that bike by loan...i got so irritated because that bike is of no use he has already got a kinetic honda.You please tell me which wife will be quiet seeing all these??Meanwhile the house which we reside now has got some problem and the owner asked us to vocate the house.So we were searching for a house we dont have money to pay as advance..only then i opened my mouth saying...y did he buy the bike?he started shouting at me he called me selfish,bad women etc etc...i got so hurt...he said if there is no money then you have got your jewels pledge it and get the money...i got so angry and i said u will take loan for your brother...but if its for house purpose you will ask me pledge the jewels.....he was telling me that i have no rights to talk about his brothers/bike/money..i said in such case u have no rights to talk about my jewels....he didnt expect i would say this....he got so furious and he called me bad names...i really dont know how to handle my husband...please help meCryCryCry

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