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He says we're ending. . .
November 30, 2012
12:11 pm
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ChuChi101
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I am new here and I don't really know how this works, but I need help. My fiance says that our relationship is ending, it's very difficult. So far a lot of people are in our life that we don't really want there all the time. I love him to death and he says he loves me. But, for the past week, maybe two, we haven't been happy at all. There will be those times where we're happy for about five minutes. But, then it just ends. I'm not sure what to do, it's getting really hard. I know this story doesn't exactly help with anyone giving me advice but if anyone can, please tell me what I could do to save our relationship, or at least be a better girl for him.

 

Thank you.

December 3, 2012
5:38 am
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It might be best to consult a relationship counselor that can help you restore your bond as boyfriend and girlfriend and soon to be married couple. That way you'll have a better understanding on what's lacking in your relationship and how you can improve it as you spend your time together. How long have you been together btw? was there any history of cheating in the past? or did you fight recently that affected your relationship causing that kind of gap? Try to realize what have caused your recent situation and talk it out rationally. To make a relationship lasts, communication is still the top key. Discuss your feelings to each other and think of the possible ways that could make you both back on track. Whether to end or save your relationship, make sure you decide it mutually and fairly.

 

Hope that helps.

December 4, 2012
11:28 am
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 Maybe your fine the way you are and
don’t need to become a better girl for him. Don’t put yourself in a position
where you feel responsible for someone else’s happiness. Probably time to speak
up and ask him what’s going on in your relationship. What can we do to make it better?
If you have people influencing your relationship in a negative way both of you
as a couple needs to address this. Sit down with him talk and communicate your
concerns.  Communication and trust,
you’ll need them both for your relationship to succeed.

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