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He is such a great guy but I cant seem to fall in love with him
August 16, 2012
10:02 pm
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Me (22 AGE) and my bf (22) have been dating for a year and 4 months, he is the most amazing guy I've ever met and there is no doubt he loves me, but I just dont feel the same way. I care about him so much and im so scared to loose him because Im afraid I wont find anyone like him. I would define our relationship as compassionate and true caring from both parts, but to give you a better idea...I cant say I love you back when he tells me that he loves me. He knows that I dont feel the same for him and yet he wants to be with me. I once ended our relationship and a few hours later he begged me to go back with him. It seems like little things that he says or does bug me, I get upset at him for stupid things as if I had my period all month long. I feel sexually attracted to him however Sometimes during sex when hes going to kiss me i avoid him. I dont know what is wrong with me, I care about him so much and I dont want to hurt him, But i've tried to end this relationship and he begs me not to. Im so scared bcuz I really dont want to loose him and yet I feel like im better off alone. Please advice...

August 20, 2012
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Sounds like you are not being honest with yourself. Re-read your post. I know its hard to tell someone that you care about that you are not in love with them, but you are doing your friend a disservice by not being honest. When he begs you not to leave and you stay, both of you are staying stuck and not moving on with your lives. You are both very young, and if you say goodbye to the romantic relationship eventually you could probably still be good friends, no?

August 23, 2012
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bevdee is now posting as may09.

August 24, 2012
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She can post under Santa Claus for all I care! Just like everyone else Bevdee can post under any name she chooses. She is going through a lot right now with lesbian drama and a man who sent her a pic of himself with no pants on. Have a heart.

August 24, 2012
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@ soofootoo aka free -why do you always defend Bev?

September 27, 2012
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Sorry to say this but if that's the case then you're being selfish. It's unfair for you to hold on to a guy whose very in love with you and yet you don't feel the same way. You've been thinking that if you lose him you might not find someone like him anymore, how is that possible? You just like him for being so great but you don't love him? Come on you're being too ideal. Try to consider your feelings. If you think it's not really going to work out then let him go. Maybe he deserves someone better who can show him the same love he's showing to you and you too. You can remain as good friends if you want to. Just give yourselves time and space.

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