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Is my husband a sex addict?
April 16, 2014
12:50 am
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Hi, I'm in need of orientation, because I'm in a situation I cannot tolerate anymore. I think my husband may be a sex addict. I have confronted him about it but he's very defensive.

He watches porn every day -ever single day- and even when our sex life was good he would still always want more and on top of that, masturbate and watch porn. This is a man that wakes up and the first thing he does in the morning is either grind against me or grab his junk and masturbate. Every single morning. 

Every time he thinks nobody is watching, he is touching himself. This happens at the office, in a cab drive, when he's watching TV, when he's playing videogames, in an airplane when we travel. Always. Every night after dinner, he sticks his hand down his trousers and touches himself while we watch TV.

We used to have a lot of sex, we were trying to get pregnant, but after much trying with medical help and everything, we realized we couldn't have children. He didn't want them to begin with and he was never supportive, he used to get angry at me and force me to give him bjs.

I left him because I couldn't take it anymore and after a month he was already sleeping around. His whole life seems to revolve around sex. And he's a government official, so it's pretty bad. If the press knew about this, they would have a field day. I hate his guts but at least for the sake of what we had, I want to help him.

Does he have a sex addiction or is he just a jerk?

October 4, 2014
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Obviously he is! I'm also married to a recovering PA and he also denied it the 1st and 2nd instance I've caught him red handed. He eats and breathes porn before therapy. Since your husband's a government official, it may be a bit tricky for him to physically see a therapist, unless of course you don't mind. Check out GreatnessAhead. It's an online sex/porn addiction therapy program for those who are shy and/or seek anonymity.  But is he willing to change? He must admit his addiction first and cooperate with you towards his recovery.

October 26, 2014
9:33 pm
Dr. Basim Elhabashy
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Sexual addictions may be either paraphilic or nonparaphilic. Nonparaphilic addictions are classified by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) as sexual disorder, not otherwise specified.Sexual addiction is a condition that involves the sufferer becoming excessively preoccupied with thoughts or behaviors that give a desired sexual effect.

October 30, 2014
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December 23, 2014
9:46 pm
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Sex became people violent with others.sex addicts are unable to control these urges and actions despite the
problems they may cause in their relationships and to their finances and
professional lives.You can need some  Rehabe centre.

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