Well, you are never alone & hope is not something you find, it's something you need to have within you. A friend is someone who shares. Someone who gives to you & you give to him/her. Sharing is a simple thing you learn in preschool. It's mine, but you can have some, with you I'd like to share it, cause if I share it with you, you'll have some too. It does not mean you take what belongs to someone else and manipulate it or break it, it means you take it and play with it together. Same goes for them. If they cannot give back to you same like you gave to them, there is no friendship or sharing in the union. There will be kids in the sandbox that refuse to share. There will be kids in the sandbox that take away all the toys of others, just because they feel they deserve everything for themselves. All kinds of people in the world. You don't need to play with those that don't share or take precious care of the toys you are willing to share.