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My daughters were molested/raped by my step son

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9:31 pm
July 2, 2012


jamers

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First off i will give a little info on my family i have 3 kids from a previouse marrage a 13 yr old daughter a 10 yr old daughter and a 9 yr old son. My husband had 2 children from his first marriage a 16 yr old daughter and a 14 yr old son. Together we have a 7 yr old. all the kids lived with us untill January of This year. I found out my 7 yr old daughter and my 10 yr old daughter had been been molested by my 14 yr old step son. Around Christmas my 11 yr old stopped sleeping and was very emotional and would at times become hysterical. It happened after she came back from visiting her dad for his week of Christmas break. We kept trying to find out what was wrong finally she broke down and said Andrew had been touching her and her little sister. After talking to Victoria for hours we got the whole story that he had started touching them a few yrs befor and that fall he had forcefully penetrated and ejaculated into them. Andrew admitted to it and even added to it showing no remorse in fact he shrugged it off on his ADHD and said "you know how I get dad I don't always think about stuff befor I do it"
Andrews mom came and rescued him and took him into her home even though she has kids the same age as the ones he raped!
So far (7 months later) law inforcement has done nothing! My girls are in counseling even though the youngest says she remembers nothing.
Andrew on the other hand has been rewarded for raping my girls! He wanted to go live with his mom by raping my girls he got the one thing he really wanted! His mom does not even have him in counseling because " their too busy with church and stuff" I mean really!!!! His mom was trying to talk us out of the girls seeing a doctor because DHS might get involved and she has been introubled with DHS befor.
My husband thinks all his son needs is counseling. I want to see some type of real consequence for his actions.
My husband even( without my knowledge beforehand) had my girls talk to Andrew on the phone to say happy birthday.
I try not to but I get soo upset when he goes and sees Andrew and takes him to go do fun stuff. I can't talk to my husband about How I feel because Andrew is his son and he gets pissed at me. We are on the verge of divorce because I won't call Andrew my son or listen to how Andrews doing. Am I wrong?

1:49 am
September 24, 2012


ShiningLight

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jamers,

 

So sorry for what happened to your daughters but it might be best to consult a counselor on your part as the experience may have casued them trauma and depression. Aside from telling your husband what exactly happened, it's also your right to discipline your step son. That kid must also be monitored or better yet undergo a therapy that will correct his behavior. If you think that's the right thing to do then don't hesitate.

 

Wishing you and your kids well.


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