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When a guy says "go with the flow"-what do they mean?

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5:42 pm
January 3, 2005


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My guy says I think too much and should "go with the flow". What does going with the flow mean? How do I do it?

5:46 pm
January 3, 2005


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wallace -

that is funny, my boyfriend in college always said "wait and see" drove me up a wall. In my experience I think guys just act on what they feel. They don't sit around at night wondering why we said such and such or even talk to their friends about girls (unless they are really upset about it or they want to brag) at least the guys I know.

But I would imagine that he likes you and just doesn't want to jump into anything too quickly. Honestly, I wish I had "gone with the flow" the last few times . . . getting all worked up about it doesn't seem to pay off!

5:50 pm
January 3, 2005


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It depends on the guy.

But it usually means,if it is a healthy guy, lighten up, stop making plans, stop trying to organize things and make things happen….let things unfold on their own.

I would say in general it's not an easy thing for women to do. Not a slam against women at all, we just tend to be organizers and planners.

I'm terrible at it, I want to know everything. lololol

6:40 pm
January 3, 2005

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I believe it means to let things develop naturally, without "pushing" for an outcome, without controlling the outcome….too much pressure. Just enjoy.

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