What do you do when someone is using your mailing address and they don't live with you? My ex-boyfriend once stayed with me when he had no other address. For a very short time I allowed him to get mail from his family here. However, we set the rules- family stuff only- and they sent it c/o my name.
Apparently he is continuing to use this address, not with his family, but with lawyers, the police (I accidentally opened something today without noticing it wasn't for me… it was from the transit authority… the moron skipped a turnstyle and has to go to court), hospitals… you get the picture.
Normally, I do not open his mail (today was a total mistake), I just write "Return to sender. No such tenant." But is there something else I can do? Besides the nasty reminders of the worst relationship I ever had, I'm wondering if he can establish some sort of residency this way?
Anyone work for the post office? I dread telling them my story? Do I have to?
Anyway, I am trying really hard, broke up with him in January. Don't talk to him, or answer his emails (have had to block his name).