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I was going to do a search on my computer when I discovered that my bf has been searching many cities on craigslist for men seeking me, women seeking me, etc.  He has done this before and we talked about it.  I told him not to do it around me, that I didn't want to know about it.  So, now he is doing it on my computer (and it's the same computer that my children use).  He is really a sweet guy, just bad decisions.  I'm just wondering if this is an addiction, or a red flag.  We stopped having sex about 2 weeks ago (when I asked why, he said he was too tired and felt fat all the time).  I have tried making the first move to only be pushed away, so I stopped.  I really don't know what to think of this.  We have only been dating for 4 months and I am thinking we should still have an awesome sex life, but it ended.  What should I do?  Any advice would be very helpful.

Thanks,

Skigirl