Hi Friends. I could do with some insight and guidance right now. I'm in the process of leaving a longterm partner. I love him, but I'm no longer attracted to him sexually. I've met someone else who I think I'm in love with and want to be with. Why am I unhappy? Because I feel in an emotional desert. I feel comfortable with my old partner-probably because of the years we've spent together. With my new partner, he is not very emotionally or physically expressive. He does a lot for me, and I know he cares for me. But there is something missing. I've thought about it, and I think I feel unfulfilled by him emotionally. But I don't know what he could do to put it right. I've tried hugging him more, but it makes no difference to how I feel. I've been to counselling with my old partner and it didn't work. To him, sex is a big thing, and it's the last thing I want with him, so you can see why it can't work out. But I know that when all the financial side is sorted, he wants me out of his life-he's told me, and I can understand that. But then I'll be loosing the one person who I feel emotionally comfortable with. I've asked if we can stay together but as best friends, he said he wants the lot or nothing. I don't know what to do or which way to turn.