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I dont know how to get over it

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9:18 pm
March 12, 2011


Olivias Changing

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Z you are officially a dingdong. Do you think I, or your dana would waste time on you if you weren't awesome and totally worth it? Don't pretend like you don't know.

My mom is tough, I think she could take you. If not two of my sisters will help her and I know how you are with the pretty ladies so you might as well enjoy back And enjoy the ride. Mom will even feed you.

I have a date tomorrow. Don't get too excited. Its naked Guy but he's actually OK when he quit showing me his peepee and started acting like a normal Guy. We will see but he is not getting any. I'm afraid you are gonna Have to marry me after all because I'm not getting any younger and no guys are jumping to marry and impregnate me. I need a dark curly haired girl so I can name her Olivia jr. Do you think you can pull that off? If its a boy it can be Zhris jr OK.

Love ya

Olivia

4:44 am
March 13, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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HAHAHAHA lol

for the record your cheating, sicking three women on me, that is sooooo unfair.

 

and yeah i wouldnt get hopes up with MR.peepee, he obviously showed what he is looking for, and now that he realized he has to work for it he is switching the game up. he will try to be polite, sweet and funny, but remember that this is a guy who wanted to sleep with you before getting to know you, that tells you what he really wants, but be optimistic, who knows? maybe he is just an idiot and is really nice in person.

 

by the way i told dana, i kinda had to, she was giving me this look all day yesterday lol, and like every hour she said "so im your best friend huh? but not good enough for you share with,"

oh, she also got the habit of yelling at me in public and saying "so the other guy could know but i couldnt, your best friend" lol

 

lol dam that woman! i got her alone, showed her the cuts, and promised they will stop. she was both worried for me and pissed off that it took me so long to tell her, she really hates that, ugh women, one of them wants their mom to kidnap me, the other wants me to share my feelings.

 

lol she is leaving litterally right now, i swung by early and dropped off coffee and pastelito's (those are pastries that you eat for breakfast down here)

 

so you want a curly haired daughter? well, i dont think i have any curly hair in my blood, but the darkness is right up my alley, you want dark hair and eyes you got it. and not a bad name for a boy, clever, i like it. just relax woman, remember you are already engaged, your just trying to see if you can upgrade before you walk down the aisle lol

 

and the quote of the day is "z you are officially a dingdong"

 

lol someone must explain to me one day why am i cursed and blessed with women who are positive that i am an idiot who needs constant watching lol

 

its a beautiful morning, i saw the sunrise, goodmorning olivia, your amazing dont ever think otherwise,

10:39 am
March 13, 2011


Olivias Changing

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Z I made big drama. I have apparently been inappropriately supportive to my friend Chris. He having alot of marital problems and is ready to leave his wife. Wh have been working on where he will live and work, stuff like that. I support his decision to leave but he is telling me now that he is in love with me. I love him but not the way he wants me to. I think he needs me to be his soft place but this isn't the time and I don't want to loose his friendship. That's kindof why I'm going out with naked guy (Matt) I know I make no sence but I don't want to be that available to him. Please explain to me how I am all the sudden trying to juggle 4 guys.

10:40 am
March 13, 2011


Olivias Changing

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7:33 pm
March 13, 2011


zarathustra

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lol olivia, i am of the opinion that these moments that are ridiculous are what make life special, these hard moments makeus apreciate the good ones better, my opinion is at the end of this is to laugh, because in all honesty, this may be one heck of a pickle, it is worth laughing at. your friend chris who proclaimed his love for you, it is very important that you are FIRM with him, let him know you are ONLY a friend, do not be shy, and worried about hurting his feelings, be firm and fast, let him know where things stand, because the longer you delay the more he will take it as a sign that you might feel the same way, be FIRM olivia and let him know if he tries to make this into something it isnt then its over as friends as well, DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO PUSH YOU, do not be afraid to hurt his feelings, you are not responsible for him, you are doing more than enough by being there with him, you dont need to be his rebound.

 

lol damn woman, juggling 4 guys,  remember a time when you were nervouse to date one. just remember worse comes to worse you marry me and i move into your attic.

 

goodnight my very good friend, sweet dreams

4:08 am
March 14, 2011


Olivias Changing

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Ok this is way beyond what I can deal with. Chris and his wife had a big blowout yesterday and I ended up driving 3.5 hours both ways to pick him up. O try to talk to him but he's so happy to be free and conflicted over leaving her kids that o just can't. I missed the date I actually wanted to go on nut I told the other two to buzz off. I have had no sleep, I'm at work and I'm a mess. I've never been called so many names in my life. I so stuck

7:51 am
March 14, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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relax olivia, for the record it is impossible for you to look like a mess, so dont spread lies like that,

that was very nice of you to pick him up last night, but to be honest,  am not surprised you did, would you be surprised if i did that for dana?

do you have any idea how freaking amazing you are? dana was talking to me before she left, we were discussing how i manage to only be attracted to women more crazy than me, she said she WISHED i would marry a woman like you, i was actually very touched to hear her talk about you, she always tells me she is happy i can talk to you whenever she cant help me, she says you are sweet and compasionate, and she loves that you have no problem reminding me i am a dingdong. lol if only you werent so young!

 

just relax olivia, finish the day, go home, turn off the phone and try to take a nap. you are not responsible for anyone execpt yourself and ty, you can help others but in the end people need to rely on themselves, all you can ever do is push them a little bit, you cant do everything for them.

5:29 pm
March 15, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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hey there unbelievable lady who is beautiful and amazing, sweet dreams, remember to smile please, the world is a better place when you smile

4:17 am
March 16, 2011


Olivias Changing

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I like having a message waiting from you. I'm not amazing Z. When my friends are hurting I want to do all I can to help but it always ends up to my detriment. I like having my friend around but he needs to borrow my car to work until he gets a new one, which causes me to have to pay for gas now. This is going to mess with my college schedule. I don't like being called a little tramp, mistress, heartless, and a whole handful of other names. I even got a nasty email from chris' step father telling me how I am helping him betray and abandon his family to hook up. Knowing how he feels I would like him to stay somewhere else but there is nowhere else. My brain is so tired. What do I do?

9:57 am
March 16, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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you do whatever you want to do, and pardon my language but fuck them and their opinions, they have no idea about the situation you are in, they should be throwing you a fucking parade, instead they calll you names. i know the feeling trust me, it used to piss me off when i would get accused of sleeping with dana, it still does t be honest, but you know what she told me? to just tell them that she is great in bed, and i told her when they ask her how i am to just say i am a huge penis and know how to use it.

fuck them olivia, they should be bitching HIM out, not you. you are alot of things, sweet, smart, beautiful, kind-hearted, and a bunch of other names, but none of the ones they call you, although you are a mormon lol

 

fuck them olivia, your amazing, dont ever think otherwise

3:32 pm
March 17, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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WOMEN ARE SO FUCKING ANNOYING.

so i worked REALLY hard today and told dana i am excited because i can buy her this purse she wanted but couldnt afford when she was down, guess what she said? she started complaining! oh! i dont need to buy her presents, she doesnt care, it stresses me out and i need to relax and not not worry so much about buying her stuff and blah blah blah!

 

how the fuck do i buy presents for her and STILL get bitched at?!

olivia if for whatever reason you call me up and i marry your ass YOU ARE FORBIDDEN TO COMPLAIN WHEN BUY YOU PRESENTS.

i told her to leave me the fuck alone, i love buying her presents it makes me happy, i told her i either buy her crap or spend my money on hookers and drugs, she went on that it stresses me out and that she just wants me to take things easy and crap, i reminded her that i have been up since 6 in the morning, shovled 8 tons of asphault and i am very tired, and if she EVER complains about me buying her gifts i will buy them anyways and burn them.

 

hey olivia how are you? hope your having a good day, smile for me please thank you

2:57 pm
March 18, 2011


Olivias Changing

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Your dana is a good girl for watching after your finances. Its funny that you don't understand we aren't all about what we can get. She loves you friendship, all the rest s a bonus. Be careful that you don't make relationships totally about things. Don't worry I don't men your dana

Today I got in a fight with naked Guy. He got mad because he wanted me to come over tonight and I gave him a playful answer. Funny thing is if he was ice I may have gone jet to escape mY life. He told Me he told Me he didn't know why anyone would think I was worth it. I told him I knew I was and it was his loss. He said that just meant I was conceded. Jerk. Glad I never met him in real life.

Chris went to farmington to see the kids and work his last night so its jet me and Tyler tonight. I found out today I have asthma. Great news huh. When it rains it pours.

I love life

Olivia

3:34 pm
March 18, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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you better fucking love life, life has you, so that means its worth loving.

 

FUCK NAKED GUY, WHAT KIND OF ARRAGONT DICK IS HE?

and dont worry, having asthma is very controllable, i have cronic bronchitis, which is simliar, i have a standing prescription for that inhaler crap, i just never use it,

 

tyler is lucky to have a mom like you, i am lucky to have an internet world where i can talk to you, the house you live in is lucky because it gets to have you inside of it living there.

 

and you litterally pretty much just said exactly what dana said to me once, she doesnt need presents, she loves ME, and i dont need to prove my love to her, when will you women understand i am not proving anything? i genuinely like buying presents, there is no better feeling than seeing her face light up when she gets a present, when i have kids i want a daughter so i can spoilt her little princess ass rotten,

 

i dont make relationships about things, in my opinion, my partner makes me very happy, so i should do my best to make my partner happy, its very simple i know, but the best things tend to be simple. money means nothing to me, i have a very weird relationship with money, i have had lots of it and none of it several times in ONE year, so when you have seen money come and go as much as i have, you learn to not care, you enjoy money when you have it and remember what it was like to have it when you dont.

 

remember woman, you are fuckign awesome and the world loves you, people love you, everyone and every thing loves you, me too :)

6:31 pm
March 18, 2011


Olivias Changing

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I love you Z. I wish everyone saw me the way you do. You will be an awesome daddy some day. You Are good with unconditional love. I know I mess up a lot. My intentions are good. I really feel overwhelmingly sad.

Save your money to buy yourself a house. That would benefit you both

9:56 am
March 19, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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hahahahaha i could never save up money, not when i see something that my bestie would love to have.

 

what do i have to plan for? most of my family has heart attacks in their fifties, if you think about it i am going through a mid-life crisis lol

 

and you DO NOT mess up alot, when you do something in innocence then it is not messing up, messing up is when you do something with an evil mentality, you cannot mess up when you mean well, it may not nd up like you wanted, but you WANTED something good, so nothing can happen otherwise.

 

dont ever feel sad olivia, the world gets a little darker every time you are sad.

 

and me good with loving? nope, i am a dick, i am an asshole, i love no one, i am a hardcore bad ass who is stone cold, please dont tell dana i said that she willlaugh in my face lol

 

love you more :)

3:35 pm
March 19, 2011


Olivias Changing

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OK I'm getting really aggravated. Last week I gave Chris 75$ so he had gas to make the drive to his interview. Today I went and picked up a phone for him on my bill thinking he was going to return the prepaid one that didn't work and give me money back. I was wrong. I can't pay my bills and I can't afford for him to keep costing me money. I told him to ask his x if he can use the car temporarily until he gets one since he's making the payment, he didn't do it so he's driving my car and I just don't have one. I need him to make some effort here. His x keeps telling the kids he's with a new mommy and he doesn't even correct her I'm very frustrated.

3:35 pm
March 19, 2011


Olivias Changing

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Post edited 5:07 pm – March 19, 2011 by Olivias Changing


5:11 pm
March 19, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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he doesnt correct her because he WANTS something to be there between you two. olivia i have told you this before, be FIRM, you are a friend, not his wife, or mother, or anything, you have no responsibility in this whole thing, you are doing this out of kindness, he is abusing it. olivia do not allow him to do this, tell him if he isnt going to drive his own damn car then to stop making payments on the other car, tell him to take a fucking cab, olivia i wish you had a mouth like me, tell his lazy ass off, friends curse eachother out when we are being assholes, if dana never cursed me out she wouldnt be my friend, if his ex wont let him use the car then tell him he finds another car because you need your fucking car, he is going out of his way to make this a pain for YOU when you are helping him, you DID NOT have to do the phone thing for him, olivia if he were a friend then he wouldnt be doing such things to you, putting you in the middle, he is dragging you in when you are saying no. stop being so damn nice olivia, be a bitch a little bit, please? i am here for you, and wish i was there for you to throw chris's ass out on the street and tell him not to come back unless he is driving his own damn car. he is smearing the reputaion with my name, i dont like that. i am here for you woman

5:35 pm
March 19, 2011


Olivias Changing

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I appreciate you being here, there isn't really anyone for Me to vent to. I want to tell him all kinds of things. I am very angry right now. I think the asthma flare up is because he smokes in the house and my car wreaks. I don't even know where to start. I make plans to tell him how I feel and then I get around him i and I can't find it in me to do it. I'm afraid this is going to end our friendship and I'm not so sure that's a bad thing.

6:53 pm
March 19, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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OLIVIA IF HE IS SMOKING IN THE FUCKING HOUSE YOU SNATCH THAT CIGARETTE OUT OF HIS DIRTY MOUTH AND FLICK IT OUT THE DOOR. you tell him you have asthma and no smoking in the house, NO BUTS ABOUT IT, and NO SMOKING IN THE CAR. PERIOD. olivia i quit smoking cigars because dana didnt like it, a real friend would at very least not smoke inside, he better not be leaving the butss all over the place, olivia, my dear, PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD TELL HIM OFF, i cannot believe a friend would smoke in your house without asking if it is ok. he better not be smoking in front of ty, because ill personally whup his ass.

 

you vent all you want at me, i wish you would tell him off, olivia friendships dont always have to end like that, you can talk to him and fix it, it isnt always so balck and white, if people care about you they will change, he is a guest in YOUR house, you set the rules woman.

 

have you heard the song "i need a doctor" by dr. dre and eminem? the lyrics remind me of dana's and mine history, its about how dre is complaining that he feels helpless and that he needs eminems help and eminem snaps and tells dre that dre is HIS hero and mentor, that dre saved HIM, and he refuses to see him down, thats how i feel about dana everytime she is down and scared, how can that woman ever feel down and depressed, she is the most amazing person ever, she saved ME. but according to her i saved her? no matter what i do for her, it will never be enough, sorry for bringing this up, i am listening to the song right now lol

 

i found out today when she was down during spring break she talked to one of my friends privately, he is really the only person i hang out with besides dana and she thanked him fo being there for me when she cant, i love that woman so fucking much, i dont care how often isay it, i can always say it once more. she is an idiot though, she doesnt seem to understand that she IS always there for me.

 

stand up for yourself olivia, remember how much of a bad ass you are. i do not lie or blow smoke up your butt, i write great things about you because you give me great things to write about. sweet dreams olivia, your amazing, dont ever think otherwise

3:00 am
March 20, 2011


Olivias Changing

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I dont feel like a bad ass or amazing but I am going to try and talk to him today. I love you Z. Ill talk to you later, right Now Its still too early for me.

10:06 am
March 20, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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dont TRY to talk to him, TALK TO HIM. what is there to try? i am not asking you to move a fridge by yourself, or get a sofa up two flights of stairs in a narrow hallway. this is simple olivia, what you dont seem to understand is that YOU are the one who sets the tone here, not him, this is YOUR house, YOUR car, YOUR friendship he is fucking up, HE is the one who needs to TRY not you, stop thinking you need to TRY, you dont need to try anything, he does.

6:16 pm
March 20, 2011


Olivias Changing

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I did it. I Moved the fridge and carried the sofa up the stairs. It wasn't graceful or forceful but I got it done. I didn't mention money or the car, I simply told him I didn't like the situation or the way the situation looks especially to his wife and children. He Said he knows I am right and will start looking for a place in the town where his job is tomorrow. It will probably take a few weeks. I guess I am willing to give him that much. I will think very hard before I bring anyone else in my home.

7:55 pm
March 20, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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THANK YOU OLIVIA, seriously, now how about i move in now? lol KIDDING! lol relax and breathe a little bit

 

but i hope you made sure he also knows about the no smoking, and i WISH you would have said something about the car because if he is going to be looking for a place then he is going to be using your car even MORE, and making it even more dificult for you,

 

it shouldnt take that long for him to find a place, he can get a cheap hotel room and stay there for now, he has a fucking job, and he is a grown man, you do not need to take care of him, you really are too amazing olivia, i have slept under a highway overpass before n my life, i have slept in cars, and on buses overnight before and did not ask a friend to let me stay overnight because i do not like imposing on people, do you think i would EVER show up on dana's doorstep and ask to stay for a while? i know i COULD but i would never do that, she probably would want me to, but still, that is wrong, (for the record she doesnt know any of that stuff and thank god because she would probably break out in tears and try to comfort me which is just stupid) he is wrong to have wanted to move in with you, it looks bad to his kids which is what matters most, and he is really becoming a headache to you.

 

so i figure i move in the attic around tuesday? lol KIDDING! relax woman, one challenge down.

8:18 am
March 22, 2011


zarathustra

miami, florida

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hey olivia, this is your daily reminder that you are awesome, dont ever think otherwise


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