Please consider registering

sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register

Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search

— Forum Scope —

— Match —

— Forum Options —

Minimum search word length is 4 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters

sp_Feed Topic RSS sp_TopicIcon
my fiance strangled me..
August 31, 2013
7:00 pm
New Member
Forum Posts: 0
Member Since:
August 31, 2013
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

My fiance and I have been together almost 3 years.
We have a 15 month old together...

He cheated on me 7 months into our relationship, but swore not to do it again. We sought out counseling.
Since then all we seem to do is argue... well, last week when we were arguing, it escalated to the point he got me on the ground, got on top of me, and started to strangle me... our 15 month old was standing by screaming and crying... all I kept trying to say was not in front of him. And all I kept thinking was, if hes going to kill me, I just wish he wouldn't do it in front of our son.

I passed out, and when I came to my fiance was crying and holding our son saying he was sorry.
I didn't call the police, but rather told him to go. Which he did.. I swear I look like I am turning into a zombie, the blood capillaries burst in my eyes.

My fiance is now wanting to go to counseling and fix out relationship.
Am I stupid if I do this? He has never put his hands on me until that day. I am so confused, so lost, and I still feel like I am in a dream..

October 21, 2013
9:46 pm
Costa Mesa, CA
Forum Posts: 61
Member Since:
January 25, 2013
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I think its a time for you to think of your relationship very deeply & find a ultimate solution out of it, you described that once he cheated on you & also sometime back he tried to kill you, do you think he actually loves you. If so then take him to psychologist & take his conselling on this matter to check if there is any new development in him or he is till acting the same. If the problem persists with him, then think your kids future & then take a step for your well being.

October 22, 2013
3:53 am
Forum Posts: 1106
Member Since:
January 18, 2012
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline


if you are in a dream, it's time you woke up because your child needs you to be alert.  Get yourself away from this person.  Zero tolerance for any kind of physical harm.


Let your Fiance find help & you just protect yourself & your child.


One Day

Forum Timezone: UTC -8

Most Users Ever Online: 247

Currently Online:
54 Guest(s)

Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)

Top Posters:

onedaythiswillpass: 1106

zarathustra: 562

StronginHim77: 453

free: 433

2013ways: 419

curious64: 408

Member Stats:

Guest Posters: 49

Members: 97357

Moderators: 2

Admins: 3

Forum Stats:

Groups: 8

Forums: 74

Topics: 38400

Posts: 713856

Newest Members: eexjasond, claire4orr, cflower, james Glickman, jimmyglickman, MGB

Moderators: arochaIB: 1, devadmin: 7

Administrators: admin: 21, ShiningLight: 532, emily430: 17

Copyright © 2015 Internet Brands, Inc. All rights reserved. Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Cookie Policy | Health Disclaimer